Want to know how to touch her breasts and make her love it when you’re all alone and cozying up with her? The Super Fella reveals his super guide on how to touch a woman’s breasts on a date the easy and safe way!

Making out is confusing, but it can be so much fun if you really know how to do it well.

In the first part of this guide on how to make out with a girl, I’ve told you about how to warm her up and kiss her and make her love it.

And you really should read that before going ahead and figuring out how to touch a woman’s breasts.

Playing with the kisses

Once both of you have started kissing after using the steps I’ve given in the introduction, keep it nice and slow.

Of course, you can get aggressive if she’s getting all aggressive.

But unless she’s taking the lead, build the passion up instead of the aggression.

One of the things that most guys do wrong is push the game and go too fast.

They’re so happy to be kissing a girl and getting a chance to cup her breasts, they forget to keep the passion alive.

Getting too aggressive could end your chances of touching your date’s breasts midway, and no one wants that.

When you’re making out and trying to figure out how to touch a woman’s breasts on a date, all your attention should be on her pleasure and not just on yours. So however far you go, remember to keep the focus on her.

Do that and you’ll be making out with her until the sun comes up. [Read: What to do if you like a friend's girlfriend]

Kiss her gently at first and very tentatively, use your tongue but only if she reciprocates your move. Pull back gently now and then and kiss her ears and her chin, slowly moving down towards her neck. The nape and the sides of a girl’s neck are extremely sensitive and arousing for almost all girls, unless they feel ticklish.

As tempting as it can seem, don’t go too close to her cleavage. Border your kisses around her neck and her shoulders once in a while when you’re kissing her lips. Moist kisses are great, wet kisses aren’t.

A lingering cool reminder of where you kissed her feels nice, but it’s definitely not enjoyable if it feels all watery!

Playing with her hands

When you’re making out with a girl, she’s obviously going to reciprocate your moves too. But if she’s having a really good time, she may even just sit back with her eyes closed and enjoy the experience.

If you ever feel like things are getting slow, or if both of you are getting extremely aggressive and her hands are moving a lot, you can kiss the inside of her elbows or her wrists. As surprising as it may seem, kissing the insides of her elbows can actually calm her down. At times, you don’t want the making out to seem like a one night stand or a one-time thing. Going too fast could even make her dislike it the next time because it would all have happened so suddenly.

Remember, when you’re trying to touch a woman’s breasts, it shouldn’t feel like an impulsive one night stand. It should feel real, and she should love it!

Taking it beyond the kiss

In the first part of this guide on how to make out with a girl, you would have figured out how to kiss a woman and make out with her. Here, we’re going to take it to the next level on how to touch a woman’s breasts. But remember, we’re talking about making out with a woman, not having sex, so take it easy and play it slow. No woman likes to be treated like a tramp who’s going to have sex with you a few minutes into making out. [Read: How to stare at a girl's breasts without getting caught]

As you kiss her passionately for a while, move your hands around her shoulders and down to the sides of her tummy, slowly and firmly. As you reach her waist, linger for a minute and slide your hand over her lower back and rest your hand.

Slip your hand under her shirt and run your hand on her bare back for a second, before moving your hand out of her tee shirt and placing it on her lower back again. Repeat it a couple of times while kissing each other, and linger a bit longer with each time.

Before you try to reach out and touch her breasts, you should make her feel comfortable with your touch and yet, not feel awkward at the same time.

Learning to guide your hands

After giving your hands some exercise on her lower back, bring your hands back to the sides of her waist.

As you kiss her, place one palm gently on her tummy, and feel your way around it. Don’t move your hands over her breasts just yet. Instead, place one hand back on her lower back and bring the other hand on her collar bone, just under her neck. She has to feel comfortable with your touch across her body. By hurrying this up, you’d just end up making her feel uncomfortable and used.

Resting one hand on her lower back, softly slide the hand you’ve placed on her collar bone down over her breasts, and bring it to rest under her breast, without really touching her breast for more than a second.

Hands in the shirt

Now remember, you’re doing all of this as you kiss her passionately. This should be natural. If you find yourself getting distracted, don’t overdo it and try to hurry the pace. Take your time, even if you need a whole hour to get to this part!

You can’t make mistakes here. You don’t get second chances when you’re trying to touch a woman’s breasts, so it’s better to linger than to speed up.

With one hand on her lower back, bring down the other hand from under her breast and place it on her belly near her midriff. A few minutes of kissing later, slip your hands under her tee shirt and place it over her belly. Don’t speed this up, or it’s all over. Bend down and kiss her neck and collar bone. And at the same time, move your hand smoothly and rather quickly higher up inside her shirt. Move your hands up until you touch her breast over her bra.

The hand where it matters

The second your hand touches her bra, bring your hand back to under her breast. She knows you’ve touched her breast and so do you. But you’re being gentlemanly enough to bring it back down because you felt “it was all too soon”. You’ve got to give her enough time to feel comfortable with the breast touch. It is a big deal, after all. You can’t linger on her breasts on the very first touch. Just like a first kiss, you have to warm her up to it. [Read: 15 qualities that girls like in a guy]

Don’t take your hand out of her tee shirt, and don’t move it over her breast either. Let her feel comfortable with your hand under her breast. The very second you touched her breast for the first time, she knows where this is going and so do you. So there’s really no need to hurry.

After a few minutes of kissing and hand moving, gently move your hand over her bra. This time, place your hand over it and don’t remove it. Don’t move your hand or try to snoop around. Just place your hands on her breast and continue kissing her.

[Read: 20 things that make a girl really sexy]

Taking the plunge

If you’ve followed these steps perfectly, she’d understand where your hand wants to go and what you have in mind each time. And by simply placing your hand over her breast, you’re mentally preparing her for what you intend to do next. By doing this, you’re not surprising her and that would only make her feel more comfortable with your hands over her body.

A minute or so after placing your hand over her bra, move your hand an inch or so upwards. Now you’re actually feeling up her breasts slowly, and you’re giving her the time to feel comfortable with it.

Move your hand around gently over her breasts and when both of you feel comfortable enough, move your hand upward to her bra strap and slip it down her shoulder. Don’t hurry any of these steps. Once you’ve slipped her bra strap off her shoulder, move your hand down gently. But this time, as your hands come down, don’t move your hand over the bra. Instead, slip your hand under the bra.

Place your hand over her breast gently and don’t do anything just yet. Remember, it’s about making her feel comfortable and like your touch. You really should never initiate a move she won’t like.

And there you have it, the perfect way to touch a woman’s breasts the very first time you kiss her, the Super Fella way! If you repeat these steps exactly as I‘ve mentioned here, I assure you any girl is going to have a hard time resisting your charm and your super sexy hands when it runs all over her body.

[Read: Do girls like a guy in boxers or briefs?]

Use these steps on how to touch a woman’s breasts and you’ll see that the world is a happy place, especially in love, sex and matters of dating women!

Of all the dating dilemmas, this one is a difficult thing to handle. So do you like a friend’s girlfriend or does she like you? What’s next? Find out.

You have a friend.

And one fine day, he meets the girl of his dreams and falls in love.

A few weeks later, he introduces you to her. You’re happy for him.

But you’re totally falling in love with his girlfriend.

Ever been there?

Almost all guys have.

On one hand, you’re happy for your friend. He did find a great catch.

But on the other hand, you’re jealous.

His girlfriend is the sexiest thing you’ve ever seen and you can’t stop fantasizing about her, or wishing she could be with you instead of your friend.

Do you like a friend’s girlfriend?

When you’re a guy, it’s easy to instantly get attracted to a girl you meet, even if she’s your friend’s girlfriend.

While girls take a while to build the whole bonding thing, guys just don’t care. You like a girl, and you want her.

But when you like a friend’s new girlfriend or even an old one, you’re definitely on unstable ground. So what do you do when you find yourself in a dilemma like this.

There are just two things you can do. Steal the girl. Or admire her from afar and eventually forget about her. [Read: The best way to attract a girl with a boyfriend]

How well do you know your friend?

Firstly, most people are going to tell you to drop the thought. But every circumstance is different. And at times, you dating your friend’s girlfriend may end up turning out to be the best thing for everyone involved. But that’s not always the case.

Here’s the easy way to figure it out by yourself.

For starters, how well do you know this friend, is he a real good buddy or someone you just know in passing? If he’s a very good friend, stop right there. You don’t steal a girl from a best buddy, however bad things get. In a worst case scenario, you date a friend’s girlfriend only months after they’ve broken up. But that doesn’t always end well either.

But if you don’t know this guy very well or he’s not a great friend, then you could still give this a thought.

Can you fancy her and yet find someone else?

She may be hot, and all you probably want to do is hold her hands or take a sneak peek at her cleavage. You may think it is true love, but it’s almost always an infatuation. You can always move on if you choose to, remember that. [Read: Sneaky ways to stare at a girl's cleavage]

Try to date one of her friends or someone else you find attractive. It’s easier, safer and won’t shatter any hearts. [Read: Stages of love for men]

Is she happy with your friend?

You may secretly think your friend is a loser and the luckiest son of a gun for getting a girl who’s so good in every way. And you may also think she’s unhappy in the relationship.

But is she really unhappy in the relationship? Did she tell you that herself? If she did, she probably likes you too. Why the heck would a girl tell her boyfriend’s friend that she’s unhappy for any other reason? In such cases, you may feel like the knight in shining armor who’s doing your friend’s girlfriend a favor by rescuing the damsel in distress from a bad relationship. But you’re really not.

You’re only creating more confusions and complications by flirting with her and leading her on. And don’t forget this, you’re digging your own grave by warming up to a good friend’s girlfriend.

Are you having a great time with her?

Is your friend’s girlfriend spending a lot of time with you, or going out of her way to talk to you? Do both of you have wonderful conversations laced with romance and seduction now and then? It may all feel really happy and sappy, but you have to remember that both of you are intentionally walking into something that could only create more problems. Do you really have to sweet talk her and try to make her feel like you’re a better guy? Are you really being a good friend here?

Does she like you too?

Most guys get confused here. Just because she speaks nicely and touches you while talking or complimenting you doesn’t mean she likes you too. She may just be trying to get friendly. Unless she tells you she likes you or tries to kiss you or hold your hand when it’s just the both of you, don’t let your thoughts wander into a complicated romance. Be sure of her feelings before you fall for her. [Read: Dealing with a complicated relationship]

The code of friends

If you try to steal a girlfriend behind your friend’s back, you’re breaking the bro code. Friends don’t date a friend’s girlfriend. You may be shunned by all your other friends for complicating things. Are you ready to give up all your friends for a girl who isn’t yours in the first place?

Can you forget her?

Sometimes, you may be faced with a life changing circumstance. You may know deep inside that your friend’s girlfriend is the one you want. And she may like you a lot too.

Can you live with yourself for not going out with her? You may end up hating your friend anyways for dating the girl you secretly like and your friendship may start falling apart in a few months.

Forget her if your friend matters to you

Younger people have a huge misconception about friendship. They think friendships are made for life. And it’s almost always false. You’ll only learn this later when you don’t have time for old friends anymore. Friends come and go all the time. A few friends may stay in your life forever, but most friends end up becoming once-a-month drinking buddies or once-in-six-months reunion party friends.

If your friend matters to you, harden your heart and forget about his girlfriend. If you couldn’t care less about losing your friend, and all that matters is his girlfriend, throw your friend in the dirt and date the girl!

How to date a friend’s girlfriend

Once you’re certain that you don’t care about your friend, and want his girlfriend more than anything else, start making your move if you know she likes you too. Preferably, try to steal a friend’s girlfriend only if he’s not a good friend and if he isn’t treating her the way a girlfriend should be treated. [Read: How to make a girl like you without asking her out]

But while you’re wooing her and impressing her, occasionally tell your other friends about how badly your friend is treating his girlfriend and how she constantly calls you while crying over the phone and talks about how she’s unhappy with her boyfriend (as long as it’s close to the truth). By letting all your friends knows the real truth, you can actually end up looking like the savior and a hero in due course.

Don’t propose to her when she’s still in the relationship. If she likes you too, get her to break up with your friend first. And once you’re past that, invite her along the next time you meet your other friends. Let your friends believe that you’re just trying to make her feel better after a bad breakup with your friend who’s been a really bad boyfriend.

The bitchy complication

You may genuinely like your friend’s girlfriend. But you can’t jump into any conclusion about her feelings unless you hear it from her. Does she really like you? Don’t be too confident about that thought until she breaks up with her boyfriend.

A few girls just like the attention. She may be dating your friend, but after noticing that you’ve been drooling over her for a while, she may try to mess with your feelings just to get your attention. Wouldn’t you like it if your girlfriend’s best friend has a crush on you? It’s the same thing. Always wait for her to end the relationship. At least then you’ll know she seriously does like you. [Read: Why are women fickle in love?]

What should you do?

The last word, if you like your friend’s girlfriend enough to lose a friend, go full speed ahead. But never ask her out until you’re sure she likes you.

If you value your friend more than a fickle girl who can’t make up her mind on who she likes, then steel your heart and avoid her.

[Read: Is the girl you like using you?]

Do you like a friend’s girlfriend? Of course you do. But now that you know the odds and the ways, do something about it. But always remember to think with a clear head. And never jump to conclusions.

Scared she’ll decline you when you tell her you love her? Use these tips on how to tell a girl you love her to make sure you get the right response. By Brian Carl

Ever felt like you could float in the clouds just thinking of a special girl?

Do you dream of spending time with her and going out with her?

Do you think you’re in love?

Well, big chances are, you probably are.

[Read: How to make a girl who has a boyfriend like you]

Falling in love feels great, whether you’re a guy or a girl.

It’s one of those moments when everything around you gets beautiful and cheerful.

But at the same time, losing in love or getting declined by a girl is just as intense, only painful.

How to tell a girl you love her

So do you love a girl, but don’t know how to tell her that you love her?

There are two circumstances here.

Firstly, you love her but you’re not dating her.

In the second circumstance, both of you are dating each other but you want to let her know that you’re really serious about the relationship.

If you’re already dating a girl and are just confused about timing those three special words, don’t worry one bit. Just use the lines mentioned at the end of this feature and you’ll do just fine!

How to tell a girl you love her when you’re not dating her

As scary as proposing your love to a girl may seem, it’s actually the easy part. Getting the girl to like you and fall for you is actually the hard part. [Read: Tips to start dating a friend]

Contrary to what most of your friends may say, if you like a girl, don’t just ask her out. You’re leaving your hopes to fate and chance. And it’s the wrong way to make a move. After all, why leave your heart out on the streets waiting for sheer luck to cross your path when there are better ways to go about it?

If you want to tell a girl that you love her, make sure you know she already loves you and will probably answer in your favor.

Use these tips to let yourself into her heart first, and then make your move.

#1 Be her special friend

You’re probably her friend already and are just confused about letting her know your real intentions. So your first move should be to warm yourself into a special place in her heart. Be a special friend to her, help her out when she needs a hand, spend time with her when you can, and have conversations with her, both intellectual and fun. [Read: How to think like a woman and get the girl you like]

Don’t behave like a bad boy or a guy who throws his weight around. It works well with girls you don’t know, not with friends. If you ignore a girl who’s already a friend, she’ll think you’re a jerk or she’ll probably drift away from you. Your only concern should be to avoid becoming a best friend instead of a lover. [Read: Are you more than friends or just friends?]

#2 Talk late into the night

If you’re wondering how to tell a girl you like her, talking late into the night with her can work wonders for your budding relationship. Find reasons and excuses to talk to her when she’s already in bed. The relaxed pace of a long conversation late into the night almost always leads to something more personal and intimate even if both of you are just talking funny at the start of the conversation.

If that isn’t happening already, add a few personal questions in those conversations that’ll steer the conversation into relationships. Topics like relationships, personal stories, and what she likes in a guy will create the perfect setting to make your intentions clear. [Read: How to talk to a girl and make her like you]

#3 Take her out on dates

You’re just a friend now, but if you’ve been looking for ways to spend time with her and speak to her often, you’ll start to see that you’d already occupy a special place in her heart.

If you feel like she enjoys your company, it’s time you take the next step. Tell her about a great place you’ve tried or a new movie that’s in town and ask her to accompany you. You’re still a friend, so you can urge her to accompany you even if she’s thinking twice!

Once you’re out with her, treat her like a date and behave like how you would on a date. [Read: How to be a great date every time]

But now that she likes your company, avoid being a pushover or being too easily available for her. She likes spending time with you already, so you need to make her miss you when you aren’t around so she’s eager to spend time with you.

#4 Flirt with her subtly

You’re speaking to her late into the night, you’re an important part of her life and you’re going out on dates with her. If you’ve got these first few steps right, you’re already there in the right zone. But now you have to make it rather obvious that you’re attracted to her. [Read: Easy tips to compliment a girl you like]

Look for opportunities to flirt with her. If you’re worried about making an obvious move, start in a subtle manner by text flirting. It’s safe and even if she thinks you’re acting weird, you can always make it seem like a joke. [Read: How to start text flirting with a friend]

#5 Watch for reciprocation

You’re practically dating already! But are you the only one making all the calls and planning all the dates or is she asking you out too? Sometimes, the girl you like may just be coy and shy. Or at other times, she may just be too accommodating to turn you down. Find out if she’s interested in you too.

If she isn’t calling you or asking you out as often as you are, ignore her for a couple of days or cut down on the number of calls you make. By ignoring her for a few days, she’ll inevitably start thinking of you or realizing just how much she’s addicted to you. [Read: How to get a girl to kiss you by arousing her]

#6 Make her like you

Now you’ve done all that you can do to warm her up, and set the field to tell her that you love her. But are you certain she loves you already? Use these tips on how to make a girl like you without asking her out to make sure she’s already in love with you.

And once you’re certain she loves being with you, tell her what’s in your mind on a special date with a few lines similar to the one mentioned below.

“You know there’s something I’ve come to realize over the last few weeks that we’ve been spending time together. I don’t know if this is the right way to say it… but I really enjoy spending time with you… I think I’m falling for you, more with each passing day… and more than that, I really think I’m in love with you…”

Awww!

Understanding how to tell a girl you love her is easy, but knowing the answer before you even pop the questions is not. Take your time, plan it right, and you’ll never go wrong! Use these different ways to tell someone you love them to make your next move.

So why do women cheat in a relationship? Are women easy to trick or are they just confused? Read these 25 truthful reasons no one ever told you about! By Jake Butler

Ever wondered why women cheat so easily?

For as long as we could remember, we’ve always thought that men were the bigger cheaters.

But now we know that it’s just a lie.

Why women cheat

Ever had your heart ripped apart by a woman who decided that it was quitting time and bulldozed her way out of your life?

Fret not, you’re not alone.

In reality, women cheat quite often. And we’re not even talking about those drunken kisses and gropes.

[Read: Drunk girlfriends who kiss other guys]

You may know a few reasons behind why women cheat.

Women cheat to fill the emotional void that’s empty after a man neglects her, or perhaps the sexual preferences in the marriage are just too different.

But through my experience, I’ve seen that women cheat for completely different reasons.

And the biggest reason why women cheat?

Well, that’s because they can!

So why do women cheat like there’s no tomorrow?

Looking for real life reasons behind why women cheat? Well, these 25 truthful reasons will reveal the real truth. [Read: The role your ego plays in her affair]

#1 Women get too close to others, too fast. Women build strong emotional connections really fast. It’s easy for them to get close to a guy and confuse the bond with love.

#2 They love any man who can give them emotional support. It’s true. Want to steal a girlfriend, just give her a shoulder to lean on. She’ll give you her bed to sleep on. [Read: How to make a girl with a boyfriend like you]

#3 Women favor the gene pool. They instinctively want to favor the gene pool and play their part for Mother Nature by constantly picking other dating and mating potentials.

#4 Women fall in love fast. They fall in love too fast with just about anyone who shows affection. They try playing hard to get, but almost always end up becoming really easy to get for potential girlfriend stealers.

#5 Women are progressive. They like sprucing men up and working on little man projects now and then. And just when you think you’ve been perfected by your girlfriend, she’ll find another man to perfect.

#6 Women love drama and gossip in their lives. It’s the truth. Women get bored extremely easily and need constant attention and drama in their lives. Once the man settles down in love, the woman starts unsettling. [Read: How to deal with a complicated relationship]

#7 They’re confused about their feelings almost all the time. A girl may love her man generally, but her mood swings ebb and flow like the tides of the sea. She likes her man sometimes, and she bitches about him at other times. Add another man into the equation and it’s a teen sitcom. [Read: How to think like a woman and get the girl]

#8 Women are suckers for affection and compliments. Women fall for compliments and flirty touches really easily. When another guy flirts with your girl, she may think she’s just having fun. But in reality, she’d be falling for him even if he’s just having fun. [Read: The right way to sexually compliment a girl]

#9 It’s ridiculously easy to make a girl doubt her own boyfriend. All another guy has to do is point a few flaws, talk sweet, touch her in a few places, and she’ll start to think her boyfriend’s a loser and the new guy is a sex god who’s in love with her.

#10 Women say they don’t want to stray. But yet all they think about is straying. Every time a guy flirts with a girl, she temporarily forgets she has a boyfriend already!

#11 Women close their eyes while kissing another guy. Yeah, just shut your damn eyes and say it all happened so fast! Women get physical and then say it was a mistake. Men, on the other hand try covering it up by saying it didn’t happen. Women want pity, men forgive them. Men get caught, become a punching bag. [Read: How to kiss a girl by arousing her]

#12 Women always think they’re in a relationship crisis. When a woman’s life’s not crackling with romantic and sexual electricity, they always think their relationship sucks. Women say they don’t like vibrating, entertaining sex toys and dildos, but yet they want men to behave like one.

#13 Women think they’re too good. Almost all women think they’re too good for their boyfriend. With that kind of logic, it’s easy to stray when a “better guy” comes along to play.

#14 Women cheat for the dumbest reasons. Men cheat because they find someone sexy. Women cheat for the dumbest of reasons, to prove a point, to get back at her man, to let him know she’s not getting enough attention, to get something they really want and more dumb reasons.

#15 Women have cravings. That is, chocolates and unavailable traits in men. If her man’s not very clean and tidy, and she meets a coworker who’s a perfectionist when it comes to being clean and tidy, she’ll involuntarily be drawn to that trait. So if a guy wants to lay a girl, all he has to do is show off a trait her boyfriend doesn’t have and she’ll diveboard into his bed.

#16 Women get attracted to any man who makes her feel good. Men usually have affairs only with women who are sexually attractive. So unless the guy is rich or super charming, his odds are slim to have an affair with the girl of his dreams. But women cheat with any loser who knows to treat her better than her boyfriend. [Read: How to get a girl to have sex with you in 10 steps]

#17 She’s a gold digger. There’s no point here. If you’re dating a woman who’s more interested in your money and the fun times you give her than she is in you, you can’t hold on to her unless you strike oil. [Read: Signs she's only using you]

#18 Women cheat when they’re emotionally vulnerable. Men need booze and a sexy girl to cheat. Women just need to feel vulnerable. They’d feel vulnerable for the smallest of reasons and circumstances. And if another guy makes a move at the right time, he’ll be able to sleep with her that very night.

#19 Committed women love getting the attention of other men. And when they don’t get the attention from a guy they like, they try harder to get a second glance. Why do you think girls go weak for bad boys who treat them like crap?

#20 Women don’t learn from their mistakes. Women make moves and mistakes, and they regret it. But they don’t learn. They know when they’re crossing the thin red line with another guy, but they just don’t try to put a stop to the guy because “they like the attention”.

#21 Women cheat when they’re unhappy in bed. Do you have a small weeny? Or are you suffering from impotency or erectile dysfunction? That’s reason enough to cheat on you, don’t you think?

#22 Her man’s charm is wearing off. If a woman isn’t sexually attracted to her man anymore, she’ll definitely dive head first into any other sexually attractive man’s pants. [Read: What do women want in a relationship?]

#23 Women are stereotyped. Most men look at women as cute, walking talking sex toys. Hey, women can only resist temptation so much. If a woman’s constantly being hit on by a million guys everywhere she goes, it’s only a matter of time before she succumbs to temptation, wouldn’t you say? [Read: 20 things about a girl that sexually excite a guy]

#24 Once bitten, never shy. A woman may cheat and get over it after a heartbreaking while. But a few months later, the drama starts all over again. Women just like the constant rush of falling in and out of love all the time.

#25 Do women really ever want to be happy? Really, a woman could be in a perfect long term relationship with a perfect guy. But all she has to do is meet another great guy who knows how to steal a girl and she’ll do his bidding in no time. Perhaps, women think they like being happy when in reality, all they want is to experience bursts of happiness and lots of confusions all the time. [Read: 10 tips to be a good boyfriend]

Well, so why do women cheat so easily? For all these 25 reasons and more. And sometimes, they don’t need a reason at all.

Just ask me, my not-so-steady girlfriend confessed to cheating on me a week ago. She looked into my eyes with her big, beautiful eyes and told me she was sorry and she regretted it. And her reason, well, she doesn’t know why. All she knows is that she’s sorry because she slept with another guy when she’s in love with me.

Seriously, kinda makes me wonder if women need a reason at all!

[Read: Why are women so fickle in love?!]

Have you ever been cheated on by your woman, what’s her reason? Our readers would love to hear a few more reasons. So why do women cheat so easily in your opinion?

Did a girl like you for a while before she started to ignore you? Find out how to get a girl to like you again by playing your cards right this time. By Brian Carl

Have you been exchanging glances with a girl who seems to be interested in you?

Life can seem perfect when the girl you have a crush on likes you back.

And it can feel even better when you start talking to her and see that she likes you back.

[Read: How to get a girl to like you and your personality]

But what do you do if she starts ignoring you for no apparent reason?

Or worse, what would you do if she tells you that she doesn’t like you back and never will?

Well, I’ve been there.

How to get a girl to like you again

Before we go into details, let me share an experience of mine so you know you’re not alone.

Not too long ago, I was crazy about a girl who worked with me in the same workplace.

I didn’t know her yet, but she used to catch me staring at her now and then.

Eventually, I managed to strike a conversation by becoming her friend and things were just perfect.

[Read: How to make a girl like you by being her friend]

She always knew I liked her. And she knew I loved talking to her for hours, especially when we both had some time to spare in between work. She liked talking to me too.

Soon, we were both going out for dinners and movies, and we used to feel an electric chemistry between us.

I made it rather obvious that I liked her. And each time I asked her out, she would laugh about it or slap me playfully on my cheek. It all seemed so perfect. She was playing hard to get and I loved the chase. [Read: Why do women like being chased?]

The weeks turned into months and we got closer with each other. We used to talk late into the night, and occasionally I was even able to sneak in a few kisses and cuddles after a romantic date with a bit of persuasion. [Read: How to get a girl to kiss you by arousing her the right way]

She even told me she loved me back a few times. But she never accepted my proposal to date each other. Weird, right?

One fine day, all of a sudden, things just changed. Just like that, she seemed too busy to meet me or hang out with me. She would snap at me now and then, and eventually, one eventful day, when I asked her to start dating me, she rudely told me that she could never love me back and has only ever looked at me as a friend, and nothing more. And to beat that, she asked me to stop harassing her all the time. [Read: Why are women so fickle in love?]

Well, I was heartbroken. But more than that, I was confused. I thought it was all going so well.

I thought she loved me. She did say so herself many times.

What matters here is the fact that I had to accept defeat. I knew I had lost her. She didn’t want me. It was all over as abruptly as it all began.

How to turn things around in your favor

I’m sure you’ve been there too.

And if you’re wondering how to get a girl to like you again after she’s snubbed you, well, there’s still hope if you want to take that chance.

Here are ten things you can do to get the girl to like you again. As long as you play it safe and slow, it’ll almost always work in your favor. I know it worked for me!

#1 What went wrong the first time. Understand where you went wrong the first time around. Almost always, you may have suffocated her with your love or made yourself seem too easy to get for her. There’s a thin line between pleasing the one you love and behaving like her servant. Don’t cross that line and lose any self respect you may have. [Read: 15 things women look for in a man to fall for him]

#2 Give her space. Okay, so she’s chosen to give you up. It sucks, but almost all the time, it’s because she doesn’t value you or think you deserve her respect. So stay away from her for your own good. Give her space, even ignore her for a few months so her respect for you can build up. If you pursue her now, she’ll treat you like a stray dog. [Read: 10 biggest dating turn offs for women]

#3 Impress her from a distance. Be a great guy. Let her realize what she’s missing out on. Don’t behave like you’re depressed or broken hearted. She’s not in love with you to feel sorry for you. She’ll only think you’re weak. Instead, have fun. Be the cynosure of your workplace and enjoy yourself. You’ll make her secretly want your attention and company again.

#4 Let her know you’re still interested discreetly. She knows you like her a lot, and that’s the only reason she feels so confident to throw you around. She may like you too, but she may be forced to treat you badly to get the message across that she doesn’t want to date you. So make it appear like you’re not interested in her. Look at her now and then, but look away just as she looks at you. Be very subtle and never be obvious while doing this. Make her wonder if you’re still interested in her, and never let her know for certain that you’re stealing stares. [Read: 10 subtle eye contact flirting moves]

#5 Be proud and have an ego. Don’t ever ask her out again after that conversation when she snapped at you. Don’t write sentimental love letters or emails asking for forgiveness. She’ll only take you more lightly. Respect yourself and keep your distance. Talk to her if you must on a friendly basis, but keep the conversation short and always make her want more.

#6 Don’t be sweet with her. Make her miss that guy who used to flirt with her and sweet talk her. She threw you out, so make her regret that decision. Don’t behave rudely with her, instead speak pleasantly but never flirt even if she tries to flirt with you. Remember, your objective is to make it appear like you’re completely over her so she can regret her decision.

#7 Make her miss you and want you. Eventually, both of you may get along on friendly terms. But avoid spending too much time with her. Even if you’re having a great conversation with her, excuse yourself and walk away like you’re busy. Unless she likes you again, she shouldn’t be getting the privileges of your past behavior. [Read: How to think like a woman and get the girl]

#8 Make her jealous. But don’t make it obvious. Flirt with other girls or give them a lot of attention. Even if she tries to resist, she can’t help but get annoyed with you for ignoring her. The more you ignore her, the more she’ll want your attention. Even if she flirts with other guys, don’t let it bother you. It’s her way of trying to hurt you.

#9 Is she warming up to you? Do you ever catch her staring at you? Does she seem to take an interest in you? You can’t really make a move on her unless she’s getting attracted to you. Or all these earlier steps would be worthless. Try to find out if she’s interested in you again through her behavior. If you’ve played the earlier moves right, you may see that she’d try to get closer to you or have longer conversations with you. [Read: How to compliment a girl and warm her up]

#10 Ask her out again. If you’re convinced that she may like you back, or if you feel like she’s warmed up to you after a while, see if you can get some alone time with her. Don’t cold shoulder her anymore, instead flirt with her and see if she reciprocates. At a happy moment, cross your fingers and casually ask her if she would like to go out with you after work.

If you’ve played these ten moves right, there’s a good chance she could desire you again. It’s a risky move, but it’s the best way to get a girl to like you again.

[Read: The right way to tell a girl you love her without losing her]

If you’re trying to figure out how to get a girl to like you again, this is ideally the best approach. Try it, it’s safe and you can always back away if you feel like she’s not warming up to you. And if it does work, well, I told you so!

Want to seduce a girl with words? Use these 20 dirty questions to ask a girl over text and you can make her do all the sexy, dirty talking for you! By Gerry Sanders

Girls play hard to get almost all the time.

It’s a good thing though, or you wouldn’t really think she’s worth the effort.

[Read: 15 ways to text a girl you like and make her want you in no time]

But sometimes, it’s easier to turn on a girl than date her.

When it comes to dating a girl, she’d instinctively know you’re hitting on her.

If you discreetly warm her up to your flirty touches, you’ll see that seducing a girl can be rather easy if she thinks you’re a great guy.

[Read: How to get any girl to have sex with you in 10 steps]

If you know how to be discreet, you can make a girl fall for you or even turn her on in just a few conversations.

But here, we’ll get to seducing a girl with just 20 simple questions, preferably via texts.

Dirty questions to ask a girl and make her wet

It’s easy to ask these 20 questions when you’re sitting with her, but if she feels uncomfortable or believes you’re trying too hard or going too fast, you may end up blowing your chances. And you’ll have a hard time making her like you again.

On the other hand, by texting a few sexy questions to a girl, you can always make it seem like a joke if she doesn’t warm up to you.

It’s easy, safe and a foolproof way to turn a girl on from a distance.

Use these questions, and if you charm the girl the right way, you could charm the pants off her and make out with her by the time you reach the twentieth question! [Read: How to trick a girl into thinking of you sexually after getting close to her]

The right questions to ask a girl

Just use these questions and keep the conversation going by answering any other questions she may ask. It’ll all work out in your favor if you play it carefully and stick to these 20 questions all along the way.

And the best part, it’ll work wonders if she’s your girlfriend or even if she’s a flirty girl you have a crush on. Ask her these questions late at night for best results!

#1 Are you alone? This question is perfect to understand if she’s idle and all alone at home. You obviously can’t flirt or talk sex if her friends are around her. Say something bold like “I wish I could be there with you” when she reciprocates with an affirmative.

#2 What are you doing right now? Play it nice and slow. This can help you be certain that she’s alone and bored enough to give you her complete attention.

#3 Do you like cuddling when you lie in bed? Warm her up to a flirty conversation without overstepping the line. This can help open her up by talking about cuddling with someone else. [Read: How to have sex with a friend by texting her]

#4 What do you wear when you go to bed? / What are you wearing? A curious question that’s perfect to ask a girl when she’s in bed already. It’s personal, and yet not too sexual. Say something like “Gosh, I can only imagine how cute you look right now” when she describes herself.

If it’s your girlfriend, ask her what’s she’s wearing and if she doesn’t mention her lingerie *which she may not without a bit of coaxing*, ask about her lingerie and also the color. A perfect start.

#5 What do you think you look sexiest in? Get her to talk sexual by talking about her sexy clothing. It’s flattering and definitely sexual. [Read: 10 easy ways to build sexual tension with a girl you like]

#6 Have you ever watched someone else make out accidentally or on purpose? This question gets both of you in the mood. And yet, by directing it at a third person, you can avoid any uncomfortable situation at the start.

#7 Has a guy even touched you or discreetly groped you while clubbing or in a crowded place? Girls have a thing about sexual groping. Even if it’s accidental, it’s something they just don’t forget. You can answer something like “I wish I could have been that guy!” after she tells you about an incident she likes. [Read: Tips to touch a girl discreetly and arouse her without making it obvious]

#8 Have you ever made out with a guy just because you were horny at that time? Find out if she’s a girl who can be coaxed into having sex with a guy in the heat of the moment.

#9 If you had a pair of x-ray glasses, which part of a guy’s body *below his shoulders* would you see first? Time to get naughty. Really, how many things can a girl take a look at below a guy’s shoulders? Let her answer the question so you always make it seem like she’s the one talking dirty and not you.

#10 Do you like boxers or briefs? This is a clichéd question and even if a girl doesn’t care about it, she’d most probably say that she likes a boxer. Answer this question by telling her what you’re wearing. The whole focus here is to get her to think of your package without really making it obvious. [Read: How to avoid the friend zone with a girl and make her desire you]

#11 What’s your secret move to turn a guy on? By asking her to visualize making out with a guy and describe it to you, you’re making her fantasize about sex. And at the same time, she may go into details just to prove how good she is sexually.

#12 If there’s one place a guy should touch you to make you horny, which is that? This goes straight to sex and arousal. And if she does answer this truthfully, in all probability, she’s already aroused. [Read: How to arouse a girl and make her want to kiss you]

#13 Does a massage make you wet? A full body massage makes almost all girls wet. You can always tell her something like “Just so you know, I came first in my masseuse class and I would love to give you a massage. And don’t worry, now that I know you get horny while getting a massage, I’ll linger in all the right places.”

#14 If I kissed your lips accidentally while kissing goodbye, would you mind it? Make her imagine your kiss. It’s a perfect question to get her to pucker up. [Read: 6 ways to kiss a friend by accident and get away with it]

#15 Do you like giving an oral or getting one? No matter what she answers, you can always answer with the opposite of what she says. If she likes giving an oral, say you like getting it. If she likes getting it, tell her you love giving it!

#16 How do you think my body would look better, shaved or natural? Isn’t it a nice thought to know that the girl you like is picturing you naked the minute you ask her this question?

#17 What should a guy do to make you wet? Get straight to the sweet spot. And when she does answer this question, talk about question #12 again and get descriptive about her pleasure spots. [Read: 25 things that turn a girl on when she sees a guy]

#18 If I were whispering all these questions in your ear, would you be turned on? If you’ve got the conversation going this far, she’s obviously wet already. But it always sounds a lot better hearing it from the girl you’re texting. [Read: How to make a girl horny just by sitting next to her]

#19 If you didn’t have a boyfriend, do you think we would have made out with each other? / If I were with you right now, do you think we would have kissed each other? This question can actually get you into her bed, but you need to wait for the last question to get an invitation from her. [Read: The 7 sexiest types of sex you can ever have]

#20 If a guy wants to come over to your place and make out with you right now, would you like that? Don’t talk about yourself just yet, unless you already know she wants you to come over. If she answers “yes”, go full speed ahead to her place. Otherwise, play the seduction game for a few more minutes before telling her you want to come to her place right that instant.

[Read: How to make out with a girl and make her love it on the very first date]

Just use these 20 dirty questions to ask a girl and you definitely would make her wet. And if you’re charming and lucky, you could also get into her bed!

Do you love a girl who doesn’t like you? It sucks but it’s not the end of the world. Find out how to get over a girl and become a better guy in no time. By Jake Butler

They say that love is beautiful and perfect.

But when you’re in love with a girl who just doesn’t seem to be interested in you, love can feel like the worst experience ever.

It’s so frustrating, isn’t it?

I mean, you’re such a great guy and yet she’s interested in other guys who don’t seem even half as good as you!

Ever been there?

Well, I have.

I’ve been there plenty of times and I’ve learnt a few important lessons on that path too.

[Read: An attractive girl's confession - Why are good looking girls mean?]

How to get over a girl who doesn’t like you

During my college years, I’ve been in love with quite a few girls.

And every now and then, a girl that I liked would speak nicely to me, get friendly with me and then crush my heart when I ask her to go out with me.

I mean, these girls did say I was a nice guy.

They would even compliment me all the time. [Read: What girls actually think about shy guys]

But almost always, when I did work up the courage to ask a girl out on a date, they would appear shocked or embarrassed and tell me that they never looked at me *that way*. Gosh, I hated that feeling.

And once the proposal ends, the awkwardness begins. Things were never the same again with the girls I asked out. A few girls I liked stayed as distant friends, while other girls started avoiding me.

The girls I liked moved on, and I was the one stuck with a heartbreak that I had to deal with. It was so traumatic at times, because I never really got to know what was wrong with me or what was better with the other guys.

[Read: How to let go of someone you love a lot by hating them]

Where I went wrong in my pursuit of a girlfriend

As guys, all of us have epic egos. We think we’re all perfect definitions of the male species. But more often than not, many of us are flawed. So you think you’re a great guy. But does the world feel the same about you?

Would you consider yourself as one of the *coolest guys on the block*, be it in college or in office? Does everyone else look up at you and your friends as the most popular guys around? When I was in college, I always thought my friends and I were all that, but now when I look back at my college photos, I can see that I was a nice guy, but I was not as popular or good looking as I assumed I was.

Sometimes, all of us need a reality check. If a girl you’ve fallen for likes another guy, don’t try convincing yourself that the world sucks because you’re a better guy. Try to see the other guy’s good side and see in what ways he’s better than you. [Read: How to become a much better guy by using the right role models]

Sometimes we just have no choice

In a completely different scenario, sometimes you just have no say if a girl doesn’t like you. There was this girl I liked a lot and she liked me too. We were friends, and borderline sex buddies. We used to have phone sex now and then, and even make out after a movie or a friendly date, but we weren’t having sex yet. This continued for a few months and I started falling madly in love with her. At about the same time, she met another guy whom she started getting close to. [Read: How to have sex with a friend]

She would talk to him all the time and even make out with him. She’s single and she had every right to do whatever she pleased. But that made me jealous, and I wanted her to be all mine. I started telling her that I loved her and wanted to be with her in a more-than-just-friends way. But the more I started pursuing her, the further away she drifted from me. And one fine day, she told me that she wanted to end our relationship because she had started dating this other guy.

Apparently, she liked me a lot, but I just wasn’t the kind of guy she wanted to be in a relationship with. I was angry, bitter and sad. But to be fair to this girl, I wasn’t dating her and she had the choice to date anyone she liked. There was nothing I could do but move on. [Read: 10 ways to make any girl want you and think of you sexually]

6 lessons to remember in getting over a girl

In my failed romances and experiences with getting dumped by girls I hadn’t even dated, here are a few things I’ve learnt.

#1 A nice guy isn’t always a desirable guy. If she tells you you’re a nice guy, or that she loves spending time with you, it still doesn’t mean she wants to date you or sleep with you. [Read: How to avoid the friend zone and make her desire you]

#2 If a girl flirts with you, it definitely doesn’t mean she loves you. She may be attracted to you, but perhaps she has other reasons to avoid dating you.

#3 We can all change our minds. One of the girls I liked was a good friend of mine. She would even say that she loved me. I was intensely attracted to her, but we weren’t dating yet. To the rest of the world, we were friends. But during our conversations late into the light, we spoke like lovers.

And just like that, one fine day, she just started avoiding me. And I had no idea why. She wouldn’t reason it out with me though. She just told me that our relationship was all wrong. We’re not friends anymore but I was so madly in love with her. And to this day, I have no idea why she started ignoring me. [Read: How to read mixed signals from a girl]

#4 Life can be unpredictable and unfair. Deal with it. Sometimes, circumstances are beyond your control. The girl you like may be madly in love with another guy, or she may already be dating someone else seriously, or there may be some other reason. What matters here is that life is unpredictable and sometimes, you just need to accept it.

#5 Preferences and choices. We all have our own choices in the kind of partner we like. The girl you like has a choice to turn you down. If a girl you find unattractive asks you out, you may be flattered, but you’d still turn her down, wouldn’t you? Why is it wrong if the girl you like does the same to you?

#6 Learn to let go of your anger. You’re upset and angry. But that just won’t help you. Let go of the rage and move on. You win some and you lose some. Enjoy the game of life with no regrets or frustrations. [Read: Signs you're experiencing unrequited love]

6 things to learn from a bad proposal

If you’ve asked a girl out and she turned you down, learn from the experience and see if there are any flaws about yourself that you can pick from it. Perhaps, you were being hasty or pushy, or you still have a few personality flaws that need to be fixed. Here are 6 things you need to learn before trying to get over her.

#1 Don’t be hasty. Don’t rush in too fast in the heat of the moment. If you’re too easy to get or reveal just how much you love a girl too soon, she may take you lightly and walk all over you.

#2 What are your flaws? Every single guy in the world, even the biggest of flirters and smooth talkers, has a few flaws. When you look back at how you asked a girl out, remember the way she behaved initially and how she changed when you asked her out. Could you have changed something about the way you went about the dating game? [Read: How to tell a girl you love her without losing her]

#3 Build the tension. Never pop the question out of the blue. You like her, and she seems interested in you. Instead of looking for ways to let her know about the love you have for her, look for ways to make the conversations and the relationship more exciting. Make her go weak in her knees without letting her know how crazy you are about her. [Read: 10 ways to build sexual tension with a girl you like]

#4 Always know the answer before you ask the question. This is very important. Don’t tell a girl that you like her before you know her intentions about you. If you’ve already been on a few dates with her, there’s a good chance she likes you. But wait until you’re certain about her feelings before you reveal yours.

#5 Understand what turns her off. There are many things that turn a girl off. And many guys don’t know the things that matter to a girl. Find out the things that turn her off and avoid them. You need to be a great guy to get a great girl to fall for you. [Read: 10 biggest dating turn offs for girls]

#6 Become the guy all girls desire. There are a few traits about guys that all girls find irresistible. Become that perfect guy and all girls will like you as a friend and desire you as a lover. Be that guy and you’ll see how easy it is to get any girl you like. [Read: What do girls like in guys more than anything else?]

How to get over a girl and move on

Now that you’ve learnt from your past errors, here are 8 steps you need to take to become a better guy and get over the girl you like at the same time.

#1 It takes time. You have to deal with it. There’s no easy way to get over a girl you like. All you can do is keep yourself distracted until the wound heals.

#2 Shut her from your mind. Don’t think of her. If her thoughts come to your mind, think of something else. It feels good to remember her face or look at her new facebook photos and updates, but you’re only making the whole experience hurt more. You’ve lost her and she’s not coming back. So why are you hurting yourself for no reason? [Read: 12 devious ways to see your friend naked]

#3 Don’t become a new guy. Don’t change your personality around her after she tells you that she doesn’t like you. Don’t behave stiffly or act moody when she’s around. Your plea for attention will fall on deaf ears and she may even avoid you further because you’re acting weird. And you’ll be the only one that’s hurting even more. She doesn’t like you, so even if you try to get her attention by avoiding her, she wouldn’t care! [Read: How to kiss a friend accidentally and get away with it]

#4 Don’t behave like a hopeless romantic. If you try to get drunk or talk endlessly about her, you’re not doing yourself a favor. Learn from the experience and try to avoid the same errors the next time you like a girl.

#5 Give up. Share your feelings with her just one more time if you really want to, but in a casual manner. If that doesn’t work, give up and never hope for her to say yes again. Keeping your hopes alive will stunt you from becoming a better guy or liking another girl.

#6 Don’t look at her as a prize. “If I get richer, she’ll date me,” “If I start behaving better, she’ll date me.” These lines will only make you more miserable. You’re only making yourself more vulnerable to heartbreak because quite frankly, she doesn’t care about you or who you are anymore. [Read: How to make a girl like you without asking her out]

#7 Don’t plot revenge. She has a right to say no to you, just like you have the right to say no to a girl you find unattractive. Accept her choice and move on. Plotting revenge will stagnate your life and leave you obsessing about her even more.

#8 Find other girls to pursue. This is the best way to get over a girl you like. You’ve had your chance and you blew it. So screw it and move on. Learn from your errors and find someone else to get attracted to. If you make the right moves this time around, you’ll definitely get the girl you like and get over the girl who broke your heart at the same time!

[Read: How to get a girl to like you again in 10 steps]

Use this guide on how to get over a girl who doesn’t like you and you’ll definitely learn from the experience. And the best part is that it’ll make you a much better guy who’ll eventually get a much better girl too!

Is your new girlfriend’s ex still pursuing her relentlessly? Understand how to deal with your girlfriend’s ex, especially when he confronts you. By Daniel Lincoln

Dating someone new after a stagnant, single life for a while always seems like a lot of fun.

There’s so much love in the air, so many happy confusions and blissful days of mad infatuation.

You may be having the time of your life playing secret footsies under a candlelit table and cuddling up in dark movie halls.

But what do you do when you suddenly have to deal with the infamous, all too common ex boyfriend scenario?

[Read: How to be a man the way he really should be]

How to deal with your new girlfriend’s ex boyfriend

Have you ever had to deal with the ex boyfriend of a girl you’re dating?

It feels awesome to watch a miserable guy pleading his heart out to the girl who’s madly smitten by you.

And it’s great for your ego too.

But what do you do when things go out of hand, or if her ex tries to make a conversation with your girlfriend when you’re around?

Ever given that a thought?

Why the hell is he pursuing her?

This is the first thing you have to ask yourself. Why on earth would an ex boyfriend be pursuing a girl that you’re dating? As flattered as you may be, you still need to understand that him trying to get in touch with your girlfriend does mean something.

It could be unfinished business, maybe he wants to end the relationship better, or he wants a second chance. Or just maybe, your sweet little girlfriend is still in touch with him behind your back and is still holding on to that guy’s attention.

For all you know, she may be flirting with him when you’re not around or she may still have him on her hooks. It sounds rude, but you need to think from all perspectives to get a fair idea of the situation. [Read: 25 reasons behind why women cheat so easily]

Exes and a new relationship

Exes just fall apart with time. Unless you’ve stolen another guy’s girlfriend, he should have learnt to move on by now.

If you’ve only been dating a girl for a few weeks or if you’ve just started dating her, and her boyfriend barges right into your beautiful date, don’t stand up and push him away or try to take control of the situation. You’re not yet such a big part of her life to control it for her.

Just sit down calmly and let her do all the talking. In your mind, think of yourself as the bouncer of a classy club. Don’t intervene unless you’re required to or unless she looks at you for assistance. And even when you do interfere, step in smartly and speak calmly. Your only job in this new relationship is to protect your date when things get rough. [Read: What do girls look for in a guy to fall for him?]

6 things to keep in mind when her ex interferes

If you’re sitting down at a fancy restaurant with your new girlfriend, and you see her ex boyfriend walk up to your table to speak with his ex, keep these 6 tips in mind. You’ll come off looking like the better guy, and you’ll still be in complete control of the situation.

#1 Stay out at first. Stay out of the conversation unless you’re involved or it needs your attention. After all, it is her ex boyfriend and both of them did share a special relationship. His heart is broken, and he’s sad and hurt. Giving him a few minutes to voice his mind won’t hurt you *and it’ll be fun too*.

If your girlfriend does ask him to go away, you have every right to enter the conversation and step in between them. After all, his conversation with her is over.

#2 Don’t provoke him. It’s easy to get provoked when an ex boyfriend enters your territory. As a guy with manly instincts, you’d want to punch him right on his face. But hold that thought, and avoid provoking him because it’s just not worth it.

Ex boyfriends are egoistic and they’re obviously very jealous of you. Don’t give him an excuse to throw the first punch. Even if you win the fight, she may still feel sorry for her ex who has a broken nose, and go away wrapped in his arms.

#3 Never walk away. If her ex boyfriend walks in on both of you, never ever walk away. That’s just silly, because it makes it seem like you’re tucking your tail between your legs and running away because you’re a frightened mutt. [Read: 15 reasons why nice guys finish last all the time]

If she wants to speak to her ex boyfriend alone, she could leave the table and walk to a corner of the restaurant for a few minutes to sort whatever issues she has with him.

#4 Don’t pick a fight. Don’t get aggressive with him when he’s talking to your girlfriend. Yes, she’s your girlfriend and he has no right to waltz in and spoil your evening. But you know what, shit happens now and then. Get over it. Your girlfriend’s dated him for a while, and she would know best how to handle him quickly and send him away. If you try chasing him away, you’re doing nothing but asking for a fight.

#5 Be prepared for the fight. Even as your girlfriend’s talking to her ex boyfriend, appear calm and composed on the outside, but curl your fists under the table and be prepared for that impending fight.

Obviously, if your girlfriend isn’t able to chase him away within a minute, something’s not right. And if something’s not right, it’s time for you to intervene. And if you stand up and intervene, you know he’ll try to throw a punch because he’s got nothing to lose!

Don’t throw the first punch, but focus on his hands from the corner of your eyes. Or step in so close to the guy’s face that there’s no way he can do anything but push you back. Chances are, he’ll back away or someone else will intervene. But if that doesn’t happen, don’t leave enough space in between the both of you so he can move his arm and punch you. Stand close, so it’s just a pushy fight or a verbal one. Well, unless you know your street fighter moves and are ready to K.O. him with a well timed uppercut. [Read: 25 things that turn a girl on sexually and otherwise about a guy]

#6 Be the better man. No matter what happens when her ex walks in, try to be the better man and don’t do anything stupid unless you have no choice. If you behave like a pushover or walk away when he asks for a moment, you’ll seem like a yellow fellow and your girlfriend will never respect you because she’d realize that you can’t protect her when she needs you around. [Read: 10 biggest dating turn offs for women]

If he continuously calls her on her cell phone when you’re on a date, offer to speak with him even if she says no. You don’t need to get aggressive, but you need to be prepared to stand up for the girl you’re with, and let her know that you’re a man she can depend on. It’ll make you seem like a man who’s in control of all things around him, even if circumstances go bad. [Read: The code of modern chivalry for men]

Something for you to think about

Firstly, this thing with her boyfriend shouldn’t be a repeating affair. If her ex somehow pops into your date all the time or constantly stalks her, you need to get to the bottom of it.

Unless the guy is a creepy psycho, it’s your girlfriend’s job to cut her ties with her ex boyfriend if she’s really interested in dating you seriously.

If she doesn’t end her relationship with her ex or if she’s still in touch with him for an occasional flirty conversation as her backup plan, her ex will always trail her and stay in love with her. So who’s fault is this whole scenario? Get that answer first. [Read: Why are girls always so fickle in love?]

And if you’re not man enough to stand up against her ex, or if you’re not really serious about dating the girl, end the relationship with her. Sometimes, it’s just so much easier to avoid a girl who’s still confused about her feelings and even more confused about whether she wants you or her ex.

But if she tells you that she loves you, wants to be with you and is unable to get rid of her freaky ex, and you love her too, well, it’s time to be the better man and grow a bigger pair. Because your new love story just all the more awesome!

[Read: The 10 important traits of a perfect boyfriend]

If you ever have to deal with your girlfriend’s ex boyfriend, keep these tips in mind. It makes all the difference between a pushover and a real man.

Ever wondered why guys get so turned on watching two girls kissing each other? Here are the different types of girlie kissers and their effect on men! By Barry Pearson

What is it with men and girls kissing?

If there’s one thing that men can’t handle, it’s watching two gorgeous girls kissing each other out of the blue.

However embarrassing it may be to accept it, or however shameful it is to wipe that drool off our faces, men just can’t deny that they love watching two women together.

It doesn’t matter if the two girls are just holding hands while crossing the street, giggling into each other’s shoulders or grinding provocatively against each other at a dance club.

[Read: 20 sexy things about girls that turn a guy on when he sees a girl]

Men just love the idea of two girls doing anything together!

I’ve heard a few guys say, ‘Gross dude… why do girls have to do that to each other when they have us men?’

But it’s hard for a man to say the same words when he’s watching his fantasy being enacted right in front of his own eyes. Perhaps he could force it out of his mouth, but not without an unbearable pressure below his belt.

[Read: 10 real reasons why guys get turned on watching girls fight each other]

Why do guys love two girls together?

As a guy, as hard as you may think otherwise, you can never deny the ‘fact’ that two hot girls making out in front of you will have more than just your hands in the air.

If any of you hot girls are reading this, you could stop with the ‘ewww’ and the ‘gross’! It’s a fact, alright? You’ve got doubts?

Turn around and ask your man if I’m telling the truth. Or yeah, maybe his sheepish grin could answer that for you. Now that you’ve got answers, stop making those girly gasps and noises while reading my well thought out and experienced lines.

Away from any interruptions, now let’s get back to our beautiful reverie. Now what is it that turns us on about two girls kissing? [Read: 13 untold sex secrets every guy needs to know]

My first experience with those sexy kissing girls

A few years ago, while clubbing at one of those parties that are full of college girls, I had the privilege, nay, the honor and the pleasure of a jaw dropping experience that I would cherish forever. There they were, two gorgeous girls in those oh-so-hot clothes. They were very clearly tipsy, but hell, they knew their moves.

A few seconds of glancing out of the corner of my eye, and I couldn’t help myself. I reclined against the warm leather arm of a seat and stared at them, like I’ve never stared before, and concentrated harder than I’ve done my entire life.

A minute passed, and then two. Now these minxes were really hot and the leather on their bodies seemed to be soaking wet. Excuse me for the descriptions, but really, who in their right mind can stop reminiscing about this!

These two girls were gyrating against each other’s bodies, exchanging sweat and god-knows-what-else, and they seemed to be lost in each other’s lovely, slender arms. How I wished I could have been in between those arms in a swingers party or even in my place. [Read: A beginner's guide to start swinging with your partner]

And suddenly I saw it coming, right there, my moment of joy! The two girls moved in for the crescendo, they moved closer and just for that one second, I caught the eyes of one of these little devils, and she gave me a grin that was way beyond mischievous. It was more like a seductive taunt! [Read: 12 bad girl traits that make a girl oh-so-damn-hot!]

And then it happened, they locked lips and I was barely a few feet away from them. I don’t know what happened next, but my mind exploded… or was it something in my shorts?!

I was beyond ecstasy, or was my drink spiked? The night wore on and I had the opportunity to take these hot ladies out for a drink and more. I had five words for the other loser men in the club, “Ha! Bite my dust, d*%#heads!”  It was fun watching the posse of drooling men and unappreciative women stare at us from across the floor. But anyways, you do know how awesome it is to see a sight like that, don’t you? [Read: The foolproof guide to hooking up with girls and make out with them]

Now I wonder why we guys love lesbian kisses even though we’re not getting any action or why we love watching two girls making out with each other, more than anything else that can turn us on. Maybe it’s just that we love women. We love looking at a hot girl. We love looking at another of these hot girls. Now put them both together, and we see two hot girls together and our head starts spinning. Now getting an opportunity to watch them do a bit of lip service to each other right in front of your eyes?

Priceless? Nope. It’s fatal!

The three types of girls that love kissing each other

We can categorize these hot women into a few types, but for once, we don’t care where each of them belong, we just know they’re hot and they make us *feel happy*. But just for the record, a note here on the different hotties that do the naughty with each other.

#1 The promiscuous minxes

Do girls know that men can’t help but buckle at the knees when two or more girls fondle each other at a club? Of course they do! At least the ones that kiss each other do.

Girls have always been ones who love feeling each other’s arms and involving themselves in those girly hugs and kisses on cheeks, or any part that makes contact. It isn’t hard for them to offer a bit of lip service once in a while. Ahem, accidentally, of course! [Read: 6 sneaky ways to kiss a friend accidentally and get away with it!]

But on the other hand, we have them promiscuous minxes. I love them. They are hot and wicked. And they know they’re hot and wicked. And they know we know that they know they’re hot and wicked. And they use their seductive charm on us men.

It’s their way of getting their jollies by making us feel constricted in our shorts. Now we’re happy realizing that they’ve made us feel happy and they’re happy knowing that we’re feeling happy, literally or otherwise.

#2 The drunk hotties

Now these girls don’t know what they’re doing. The last they remember is that they’ve had ten straight shots of the best shooters in the house, and that’s it. But we men who were in the vicinity of this fabulous sight know we were feeling very happy back then.

These drunk hotties are nice girls who love their men but I guess they just feel bored of the same *hard feelings* all the time. No hard feelings to you guys about that, they just want a change, just this once, and that’s all. [Read: What do you do if your drunk girlfriend kisses someone else?]

It’s great to watch them, because they’re lost in each other’s worlds and this snog usually ends up in bed if it’s a girls’ night out after the party. Now don’t start wondering about how the drunken night is going to conclude. Whether it will end with an “I-can’t-feel-you-inside-me”, “are-you-hungry-eat-me” or a cute little cuddly snuggle is left to how drunk and appreciative they are of each other and their bodies.

#3 The fallen-in-love kissers

Now these kissing girls don’t care if you’re staring or not. They think you’re scum and they’d rather wish they were alone. But luckily for you, a packed dance floor can get anyone on a high, whether you’re straight or otherwise. Thank God for dance floors! These girls genuinely love each other, idolize Ellen DeGeneres and want to spend the rest of their lives with each other.

It’s hardest to catch these types of lovers in the act. Call them the rarest of the species, the shy ones, or the lesbian kissers, it makes no difference. But you’re not going to crave for these kisses as much as the boxer-wetting ones from those promiscuous minxes.

The kisses of the lovers are not seductive or provocative, but more loving and tender. You’d probably hate these kisses. This kiss confirms two more women down and out of your life. These two kissers are way too intimate to ever bother about reciprocating your moves or trying to turn you on. So just give up on them, and look for those promiscuous minxes or the drunk hotties. [Read: Easy ways to avoid the friend zone and make a girl desire you]

Nothing beats the sexy unexpected kiss!

All men know this. No man can resist the sight of two women necking each other. It’s hot when you know they’re going to kiss, but when it comes unexpected, it is sheer ecstasy. Men have always believed that a woman’s body is the most beautiful creation in the world. Those curves and those physical aspects are overwhelming to any man. [Read: Why men really love women and their oh-so-hot bodies!]

A man wants to feel up a girl. Yeah, even you, oh respectable gentleman! Maybe you can’t think of doing that, but given the opportunity and her approval, would you think twice about getting jiggy with her or grinding against her butt?

I guess not. It’s like listening to That Girl by Frankie J. and listening to the same song again, at the same time. Get it? It’s like watching two supermodels with bodies like coke bottles. And the best part, they’re together, and they’re spicing the dance floor with their hot saucy moves. Which guy with raging testosterone can handle a sight like that? [Read: How to make a girl wet and horny just by sitting next to her]

Perhaps it’s the way they look at you when they neck each other, or perhaps it’s just the way the two bodies grind against each other so perfectly like an f**king jigsaw puzzle! Or it’s probably the way they touch each other’s bodies and tease you with their eyes.

But whatever the reason or the intention of the girls, no man can ever deny that two girls can’t turn him on. You know someone who denies that? Well, he just might be in love with you or another guy instead! [Read: How to make a successful booty call with a friend you like]

Hiding the drool

If you’ve ever seen this worthwhile sight or have been craving to see one, you don’t have to worry. There’s nothing abnormal or weird about you, it’s just your raging hormones and your happy feelings. [Read: 12 devious ways to see a sexy friend naked without getting caught!]

Just remember to carry a tissue *for the drool* along with your drink when you walk through a crowded dance floor. You can never tell when you’re going to bump into that perfect couple of sexy minxes kissing each other as they bat their eyelids at you, provocatively trying to seduce you as you gaze longingly at them!

[Read: The right way to make out with a girl and make her love it!]

You may be transported to another world of ecstasy when you see two girls kissing. Feel happy about it. Stain your boy shorts. Save the memory in your head. Drool. Drop dead. No one cares. You’ve been there and done that. You’re a legend already!

Are you getting mixed signals from a girl who has a boyfriend? Use these tips to find out if she really likes you or is just flirting with you for fun. By Ethan Kent

Love triangles are complicated affairs.

And it gets worse when a girl gives you attention, and you realize later that she has a boyfriend already!

So what do you do?

Do you continue to pursue her?

Or do you back away?

Is she really leading you on?

Firstly, you can’t always blame the girl and assume she’s leading you on and toying with you.

It’s easy to misinterpret a girl’s sweet and friendly nature and assume she’s hitting on you, when she’s just trying to be friendly!

[Read: 10 ways to read mixed signals from a girl and turn it in your favor]

But then again, there are times when a girl is clearly toying with you just for fun.

Does this girl with a boyfriend really like you?

There’s harmless casual flirting, and then there’s sizzling sexual attraction.

Are you misinterpreting the signs in this case?

Before you go pointing fingers at this girl and call her a cocktease, make sure it’s not just you making big assumptions here. [Read: 15 obvious flirting signs between a guy and a girl]

If she outrageously flirts with you, gets touchy feely and tells you that she wants to go out with you, and finally introduces you to her boyfriend, and then starts flirting again when he isn’t around, that’s a pretty big sign she’s up to something naughty!

And if she isn’t doing that, well, you need to take it slow and read her mind better.

11 signs a girl with a boyfriend likes you

How can you tell if this girl with a boyfriend really likes you? Well, here are a few signs that could point you in the right direction.

#1 She’s really excited to see you. She waves out wide and grins widely when she sees you across the hallway. And you’re not even her good friend!

#2 Late night chatter. She calls you up late at night, and talks forever. She gets intimate or flirty while talking over the phone or while texting you. [Read: 15 ways to text flirt with a girl and make her desire you]

#3 She dates you. She asks you out, or tells you to take her out sometime. She loves hanging out with you when no one’s around.

#4 She wants your attention. She stares at you discreetly from the corner of her eyes even when her boyfriend’s around. Sometimes, she even gives you a wink or smiles at you discreetly, just to get your attention.

#5 Her boyfriend. Her guy doesn’t know you well, and he has no idea that both of you are so friendly and close.

#6 She whines. She bitches about her boyfriend to you, especially while talking late at night. Sometimes, she may even compare her boyfriend to you and say you’re a much better guy!

#7 She’s attached to you. She’s very attached to you emotionally. She needs you and you’re her support system. [Read: 18 signs both of you are having an emotional affair]

#8 She misses you. She tells you she misses you when both of you haven’t been in touch with each other for a while.

#9 She flirts with you. She flirts with you, and sometimes, she even gets physical.

#10 You catch her staring at you. You’re busy doing something and you look up, and see her staring at you with a big grin on her face.

#11 She’s got a split personality. She’s very touchy feely and flirty around you when no one’s around. But when she’s with her boyfriend, she’s more reserved and shy and doesn’t talk much. [Read: What you need to do when a friend's girlfriend starts giving you her attention]

6 reasons why a girl may flirt with you even if she has a guy

Girls and guys are pretty similar when it comes to attraction. And both sexes like attention. But while a guy with a girlfriend tries to woo a girl, he does it because he wants to win her fancy or he’s sexually attracted to her.

But a girl with a boyfriend could have many other reasons to get your attention. Here are 6 big reasons why a girl who’s dating a guy may want to catch your fancy.

#1 Just for fun! She likes your attention. Period. She wants your attention and she wants you to like her because she likes it.

#2 She’s hot stuff. A girl with a boyfriend may want your attention just to convince herself that she’s still sexy and all that, and hot enough to win your attention. She wants an ego boost, and she’s using you to get it! [Read: Is she just using you? - 10 signs to watch out for!]

#3 She’s unhappy. Her boyfriend may not be giving her enough attention, or he may be a bad boyfriend who doesn’t treat her right. She’s unhappy, and being with you makes her happy.

#4 She wants more. Some girls are just annoying and a pain in the backside. They may have a perfect relationship with their own boyfriend, but they still want more. Perhaps, her boyfriend’s attention isn’t enough for her. And now she wants yours too.

#5 She’s genuinely attracted to you. The girl you like may really like you, and she may love your attention too. But she’s dating a guy and she doesn’t want to lose him because she does think he’s a great guy too. She’s got a crush on you and she doesn’t plan on doing anything about it.

#6 Moral dilemma. Every now and then, you may come across this scenario where the girl with a boyfriend genuinely likes you and wants to date you. She may be unhappy in her own relationship, and she may truly believe that she’d be happier in your arms. But she’s too nice to break up with her own guy, because she doesn’t want to break his heart. [Read: 9 straight steps to win a girl's heart and impress her effortlessly!]

Will she break up with her guy for you?

If you want it straight from the horse’s mouth, almost always, unless you play it slow and easy, this girl won’t leave her boyfriend for you. She’ll use you, get a high, realize she still likes her own boyfriend, and she’ll leave you in the dirt.

Without being too judgmental here, I can say that a few girls are pretty fickle now and then. If her boyfriend doesn’t give her attention, and another guy comes along and gives her his attention, she’ll fall for him or start liking him. And she may even lead the new guy on, until she realizes she’s actually falling for him. And then, she’ll back away immediately and give the new guy a cold shoulder! [Read: The reason why girls are so fickle in love]

Should you confront her or ask her out?

If you find yourself falling in love with a girl who’s dating another guy already, don’t just ask her to choose between you and her own boyfriend. You’d just end up losing her in a flash.

A girl may flirt with another guy or even behave like she’s falling head over heels in love with him, but if the guy ever asks her out or asks her to acknowledge the flirting, the girl may back away instantly! *unless she’s contemplating about leaving her boyfriend* [Read: How to make a girl fall for you without asking her out]

Some girls can be selfish and unintentionally mean too. She knows a guy is falling for her, and she has a boyfriend already. And yet, she wouldn’t care, she likes the guy’s attention and doesn’t really try to back away or prevent him from falling for her. Instead, she’d just revel in her ignorance!

And even if you do confront her or ask her to leave her boyfriend, she may just walk out of your life and not care about you. And you’d be the only one left with a broken heart.

If you want to play it safe, when a girl with a boyfriend starts flirting with you or tells you she likes you, just flirt with her, take it easy, and avoid falling in love with her. She’s using you, so you use her back! *well, at least until you’re sure she does love you and is willing to leave the guy for you* [Read: How to get a girl wet and horny just by sitting next to her]

What should you do when a girl with a boyfriend starts liking you?

The most important tip you have to keep in mind when you fall for a girl with a boyfriend is to avoid getting attached to her.

If you’re single and just looking for a nice time, you can flirt back and encourage her. She may even have an affair with you while she clears the confusions in her head. [Read: 10 ways to flirt with a girl and increase the sexual tension]

But if you’re looking for a serious relationship, back away from her because there’s a bigger chance that you’ll get hurt. Always be on your guard and stay cautious when you’re dealing with a girl who’s already taken. And don’t fall for her unless she leaves her guy.

You need to keep in mind that many pretty girls have a wonderful way of mysteriously disappearing from your sight when their boyfriend starts giving them attention again!

Should you steal a girl with a boyfriend?

A girl may leave a guy if she’s in an unhappy relationship with him. And that’s completely acceptable. If you’re getting attracted to a girl in this situation, be her knight in shining armor and woo her. It may even turn into a beautiful romance. [Read: 18 foolproof ways to make a girl fall in love with you]

You can try to steal a girl from her boyfriend if you genuinely think she’s a nice girl who’s not using you for an ego boost.  After all, sometimes all of us get stuck in relationships that are less-than-satisfying. [Read: The subtle art of successfully stealing a girl from her boyfriend]

But on the other hand, there are a few girls are in perfectly happy relationships with perfectly good boyfriends, and they still crave for attention from other guys. And that’s the kind of girl you need to stay away from. You could woo this kind of a girl for several months, and out of the blue, she may just start giving her attention to some other guy and ignoring you.

So if this attention seeking chick is a perfectly happy girl in a happy relationship who’s just using you, swallow your moral conscience and use her back. Or walk away!

[Read: 25 real reasons why girls cheat so easily!]

If a girl with a boyfriend likes you or starts flirting with you, don’t give her all your attention and fall madly in love with her. Weigh your options, decode the kind of girl she is, and do the right thing even if it means just using her in return!

Are you afraid she’ll back away when you try to kiss her? Use these 10 steps on how to kiss a girl for the first time and you won’t ever go wrong! By Gerry Sanders

Kissing a girl for the first time is an art.

It’s not hard, but it’s definitely an art many guys haven’t mastered yet.

Kissing a girl on a date or an empty hallway is all about perfect timing.

You try to kiss her a moment too early, and she may back away.

You try to kiss her a moment too late, and she may have lost the mood.

Now it does sound really tricky.

But there are ways to turn things in your favor, and create the perfect chemistry whenever you want!

[Read: 10 ways to arouse a girl and make her want to kiss you!]

How to kiss a girl for the first time

The biggest worry for any guy who wants to kiss a girl is the dreaded moment when you pucker up and move forward, and she backs away!

It just makes everything so much more awkward.

And if she ever does back away from a kiss, things could just go from awkward to no contact!

So if you do like a girl and desperately want to kiss her, don’t make the crucial mistake of getting the timing wrong.

[Read: 25 things about a guy that turn a girl on sexually and otherwise]

The big mistake: Rushing into a first kiss

There’s no feeling that’s worse than lunging for a kiss, only to watch your date make an awkward expression and back her body away from you. *her embarrassed smile or laugh will only make things so much more awkward!* [Confession: A teenage boy's first kiss gone completely wrong!]

And that would almost always happen if you rush into the kiss without giving your date a chance to prepare herself for that inevitable smooch.

If she likes you already, chances are, she may not oppose your kiss. But if it’s just a first date, and you lunge for a kiss, there’s every possibility that she may back away even if she thinks you’re a nice guy and had contemplated over kissing you at some point during the date. [Read: How to touch a girl on a date and warm her up for a kiss]

10 steps to kiss a girl for the first time and make her want more!

Take it slow, use the steps given below, and you’ll be well on your way to perfecting every kiss. And the best part, you’ll be able to use any circumstance to create the perfect setting for that first kiss, and kiss the girl even if she’s never even considered kissing you yet! [Read: 11 moves to seduce a girl and get her in bed within a few days!]

#1 Alone time. The most important thing you need to ensure is privacy. Kissing a girl for the first time is awkward for the first few seconds, until it starts to get perfect. But for that transition to be smooth, you need to avoid any kind of distractions.

Try to get some alone time with the girl, be it in your room, in your car after the date, or in a quiet corner as you walk her home. It’s very important that you find the right place with a lot of privacy, or you may end up ruining all chances of kissing her.

#2 Don’t talk about the kiss. If you know the girl already, chances are, you’ve spoken with her about the first kiss at some point of time, either while text flirting with her or over the phone. [Read: 20 sexy questions to text a girl and make her wet!]

But when you’re in the moment, in a quiet place where there’s no one else but the two of you, don’t talk about it. Don’t mention anything about wanting to kiss her or about wanting to make out with her. She knows both of you have discussed it and so do you. Don’t make the situation awkward by arm twisting her into a kiss because both of you have talked about it!

#3 Take your time. There’s nothing like the perfect time to kiss a girl, especially when you’re the one who’s in control of the situation. Relax, sit down with her and just talk about something. Help her feel at ease, because the more comfortable she is, the more the chances of her enjoying that first kiss with you. Just flirt with her, and talk about something both of you did that day.

#4 Don’t ask her if you can kiss her. It’s true, girls love a knight in shining armor and she’ll love a guy who’s chivalrous. But asking her if it’s okay to kiss her isn’t a sign of chivalry, it’s a sign of awkwardness.

Don’t ask a girl if you can kiss her because her answer will almost never be in your favor. If she’s really into you, she may accept to kiss you, even if she feels surprised by your *bold question*. But in any other case, you’re setting yourself for a fall.

There’s one thing you can do though, you can kiss the girl gently on her lips, bring your face back a few inches, look into her eyes and ask her if you can kiss her. By doing that, you’re teasing her sexually, and she would definitely say “yes”, and it’ll actually make the first kiss a lot more intimate! [Read: 15 secrets to make your first kiss so much more memorable]

#5 Get closer. The best way to warm her up for the first kiss is by cozying up with her. If you’re sitting down, seat your butt closer to her so your arm can easily graze against hers. And if you’re standing, move into her personal space and just stand a few inches away from her body.

The second you get into a girl’s personal space, it’ll make her feel awkward. But don’t let her awkwardness scare you away. Talk to her and flirt with her, and don’t make it obvious that you’re coming closer to her. Instead, just pretend like you came in closer involuntarily, and didn’t even realize it. [Read: How to sit next to a girl and make her horny and wet without being obvious]

#6 Warm up the sexual tension. Touch her often. Use your finger and run it through her hair or along her arm. Compliment her as you touch her, be it about her hair, her fragrance or her soft skin.

If she smiles or blushes when you touch her, it’s a sign she likes what you’re doing. Speak softly in a low tone and avoid any sudden movements. Whisper in her ears, and run your fingers against hers playfully. [Read: 50 cute things to say to a girl and make her blush before kissing her!]

#7 Make your intentions clear. Move in close until your face is just inches away from her face. You don’t need to stop talking though, just say something, but as you say it, look at her lips, and then back again at her eyes. She’ll know exactly what you’re looking at, and her mind would be racing just as fast as yours is!

Wet your own lips discreetly as you stare at her *not in a murderous maniac kind of way*. Licking your lips subconsciously sends the message across to the girl that you intend to come in for a kiss very soon, and moist lips are so much better to kiss. [Read: 10 sexy tips to kiss a girl passionately and arouse her]

#8 The perfect time to kiss. If you use these steps on how to kiss a girl for the first time, you don’t really need to worry about the perfect time to kiss her because you’re the one in complete control of things.

But just to create the right cue, move in closer for the kiss when there’s been a bit of silence for a few seconds. Stop talking and don’t say anything. Just look into her eyes, and run your fingers through her hair. If she just looks back at you without saying anything, that’s the perfect moment you’ve been waiting for!

#9 Take it easy. So yeah, you’ve just kissed the girl. But don’t get carried away and ruin the moment. When you kiss a girl for the first time, you need to be very gentle and delicate. Place your lips on hers and kiss her lips softly.

Don’t try to use your tongue too early into the kiss. Instead, just relax, and try to enjoy the way her lips feel against yours. You have all the time to try new things later. But for now, just focus on kissing her gently, and don’t get pushy. [Read: How to make out with a girl on a date and make her love it!]

#10 Don’t be overenthusiastic. When you kiss the girl for the first time, don’t let your hands wander too soon into the kiss, or she’s just stiffen up or push your hands away *and that’s a terrible mood kill!*

As you kiss her, place your hands on her shoulders or along the sides of her arms, and just move it gently along the sides of her body. Don’t try to move your hands over her breasts or her stomach unless both of you have been kissing for a while.

Touching a girl’s breasts during the first kiss can make things awkward. Well, unless you know the perfect way to do it and make her enjoy it! [Read: The right way to place your hand over the girl’s breasts when you kiss her for the first time!]

A first kiss can seem complicated, but by using these 10 steps on how to kiss a girl for the first time, you’ll be in complete control of the situation the whole time. And you’ll definitely build the right kind of sexual tension to make sure she enjoys that first kiss, just as much as you do!

Do you think you’ve been friend zoned by the girl you really like? Use these 18 signs you’re in the friend zone to know if it’s time to give up! By Nathan Richer

Every guy dreads hearing these two words one after another, possibly more than any other phrase while chasing after a girl.

While most guys will joke about being in the “Friend Zone” or try to pretend it could never happen to them, a majority of guys have experienced the Friend Zone at least once in their life.

And quite possibly, they are in denial about it at this very moment!

Or these guys simply weren’t aware of all the signs.

Some girls are upfront and nip the thought of a relationship with a guy instantly.

However, many other girls are much more subtle, and they try to be kind and let you down easy.

[Read: 15 signs she's leading you on and taking you nowhere]

18 signs you’ve been friend zoned by the girl you like!

So how can you tell if you’re being thrown to the curb gracefully by a girl, even when she doesn’t use the words and tell you straight that she isn’t interested in dating you?

Let’s take a look at the 18 telltale signs that you are most definitely in the “Friend Zone”.

#1 You’re so unfunny! Even as friends, most girls will laugh at a guy’s jokes. This is just a completely normal social interaction. If your crush laughs hysterically at your jokes, do not immediately jump to the conclusion that they are crushing back on you.

But on the other hand, if your lady friend NEVER or hardly ever laughs at your jokes, now would be the time to start worrying that you might not even be on a friend’s level. Maybe more like acquaintances. [Read: How to make a girl smile, laugh and like you instantly!]

#2 Asks you about other women. If your dream girl is constantly asking you about other women when you hang out, there are two basic trains of thoughts here. Either she is trying to find out what kind of women you like to date, to see if she falls into that profile, or to know if you’re available at the time. However, this is probably the optimistic version.

Realistically she is probably trying to hint towards you to try pursuing one of these women. *Red flag alert: Asking you about other women is one thing, encouraging you to go talk to one of them is not a good sign for you, buddy!* [Read: 15 clear flirting signs between a guy and a girl]

#3 Addresses you as a ‘friend’. Both of you may spend all day together everyday, yet the way she introduces you to her parents or her friends is a huge sign of her thoughts about you on a romantic level. Any introductions like “Matt is such a good friend” or “I absolutely LOVE John, he is my bestie”, and you should probably accept your fate in the Friend Zone.

#4 She avoids being seen with you. While out, she avoids being seen with you so people don’t get the wrong idea. Maybe you’re wondering to yourself why you see so much of her throughout the day, but never at night. She is always busy when you ask her to the mall, or to grab a bite to eat.

But the next day in class or at work, she is Miss Chatty Box with you again. At least you know, she’s yours only till it’s time to leave for the day. [Read: 10 easy steps to make a girl want you and think of you sexually]

#5 She talks about her hookups. Possibly the worst part of being in the Friend Zone, is having to hear all about the other men she is totally digging, while you are not one of them. Knowing these guys aren’t right for her (obviously you should be the one with her) doesn’t matter, because she can’t see past the nice car, that ripped body, or that gorgeous smile.

#6 Three’s not a crowd. If you invite her somewhere, she brings along a friend. If this happens once, maybe it is a coincidence, if it happens again then there is no doubt where you stand in terms of friendship versus exclusive relationship.

You invite her to a movie, or to a dinner, or basically invite her anywhere that is remotely private, and somehow it ends up turning into a group event without your knowledge. This is just another tactic women use to say “Sorry, I’m not interested” without ever uttering the words. [Read: 18 foolproof ways to make a girl fall in love with you]

#7 She’s drunk, and still no signs! You finally got her to the bar, you have her alone in public *just the 2 of you* and after a few drinks she still wants nothing to do with you! No slip ups about how crazy it would be if both of you started dating. No inching closer as the drinks flow to get closer into your arms. Not looking good, man, not looking good at all!

#8 There is no physical contact between the two of you. A hug does not count here, what are we, 12?! If you hug each other every time you see one another, you cannot realistically believe she is interested. I’m just moving on to the next point, I hope you get the hint. [Read: 15 tips to text a girl and build the sexual chemistry]

#9 She’s so casual. You can tell that she isn’t making any attempt with her appearance when you see her. Both of you head out to grab a bite to eat, she walks up to your car in sweat pants and a pullover jacket with no makeup or earrings? Again, not looking too promising here, friend.

#10 You watch a whole movie! The worst thing that can happen when watching a movie with her is the ever-subtle movement of her placing her head on your shoulder. That move just SCREAMS Friend Zone! If you are more of the direct type, try placing your arm around her back, or making a gesture to reach for her hand. Any movement away from you should let you know where you stand. [Read: Sneaky tips to get a girl horny and wet while sitting next to her]

#11 Brother from another mother? As stated in an example above, being referred to as a “bestie” is a terrible situation for you to be in. But being referred to as “the brother she never had” is even worse, because who in their right mind would ever think about a “family member” in a dating scenario?

#12 Shopping time. Does she ask you to go shopping with her on a regular basis? Now let me clarify, if you’re being invited to do some lingerie shopping, this may be a great opportunity for you. But shoe shopping, handbag shopping, carrying her purchases through the mall while following her around like a puppy dog, that is where things start to look grim.

#13 Oh-so-cute nicknames. What is more emasculating than letting a woman you love call you “Mikeypoo” in public? That is a cruel, cruel way to have your heart delicately ripped out of your chest. [Read: How to confess your love to a girl without getting rejected]

#14 She needs your advice. She asks for tips on what guys are looking for in a woman. She isn’t asking that to woo you, I can promise you that. She clearly has her eyes on another guy, and is wondering how to make him notice her. But if you want to keep telling yourself she’s talking about you, go ahead, whatever helps you sleep at night!

#15 Sharing a bed. You have shared a bed with this person and yet, did not take part in any type of physical activity. You finally get her alone in your room and she is “too tired” or “so exhausted from the long day” and wants to head right to bed. If you are bold, try and initiate something once both of you get into bed, but you are mostly likely looking at a much more direct rejection taking place within the next few seconds! [Read: 20 dirty questions to text a girl and make her wet]

#16 She tries to set you up with her friends. If she is constantly tell you how perfect you are for this friend or that friend, what she really is trying to say is you are not perfect for HER!

#17 You always end up doing favors for her. You remember the last time you covered for her during work? Traded shifts? Helped her study for her final exam at the expense of your own studying? Giving her rides from place to place without being invited to these places. Wake up, man, wake up! [Read: The right way to get over a girl who just doesn't like you back]

#18 You’re her shoulder. The worst way to realize you are most definitely in the Friend Zone is when you end up consoling her each time she has a breakup. Right after every breakup, who is the person she comes crying to? The person who she wants to sit on a couch with, share a gallon bucket of ice cream while crying the whole time wondering where things went wrong? [Read: 6 ways to kiss your friend accidentally and get away with it!]

Just book yourself a one-way ticket to the Friend Zone already and no, there is no need (or way) to buy a return ticket.

Now obviously some of these signs and indicators are definitely worse than others, but if you can even check off a few items on this list, it is time to come back to reality.

[Read: 5 reasons why guys fall into the friend zone and 6 ways to avoid getting into one]

She just is not interested in you in the way you wish she was, and the faster you come to this realization by using these 18 clear signs you’re in a girl’s friend zone, the sooner you can move on, or stay just friends without any secret agendas.

Irritating as it may be for some guy to try and chat up your girl, you have to stay cool and deal with the situation like a gentleman. Here’s how. By Philip Hegarty

It’s a fact that attractive women are considered more appealing to approach than other members of society. Most modern cultures have a particular image of the beautiful woman – one of being passive, friendly, extant rather than active, and rarely confrontational – that leads people to believe it’s fine to approach a pretty girl in a friendlier and more forthcoming way than those who are deemed less attractive.

Unfortunately, for those with beautiful girlfriends, this means that the male predator will constantly take advantage of the societal situation to approach, and try his arm at seducing, the girl you might just be planning to build a life together with.

How to get other guys to leave your girl alone

Before you start cracking your knuckles and getting all worked up for a fight, there are other ways for you to get these guys to leave your girl alone. Here’s what you should and shouldn’t do.

#1 Don’t lose your temper. A difficult one this, but unless your girlfriend is the kind of unbalanced individual who just loves to see a fight start over her, then you’re in a lose-lose situation.

First, you might get soundly beaten, in which case you’re going to look like the fool of the century, and she’s always going to look at you in a slightly different light. No matter how she coos and fusses over you and tends to your battle wounds, she’s always going to see you from this point on as the guy who tried and failed to “defend” her from a predator.

Secondly, if you win, she’s going to think you’re some volatile war freak. In her mind, she was having a swift harmless chat with a slightly flirty yet otherwise innocuous young chap, a situation she was infinitely capable of dealing with, when you bounded over, dragging your knuckles along the floor behind you, and proceeded to turn the whole scene into one from Planet of the Apes.

Inconsiderate and volatile behavior like this is NOT attractive and will tarnish your image in her eyes forever. The fact is, that most intelligent, emotionally sound and beautiful women are a very sensible and mature bunch, and absolutely abhor violence of any kind.

Plus, such actions might have the opposite effect and actually drive her into the arms of the ‘innocent victim’ to apologize for your behavior. She may make sure that he is okay before giving you the public lambasting of a lifetime. If he plays his cards right and takes the punishing you’ve just given him in a manly and forgiving way, then it’s pretty much game over. He’s played the trump card and all you have is monopoly money. [Read: 17 signs you’re being the overly possessive boyfriend]

#2 Don’t plant a flag. Always, always remember this: your girlfriend is not a possession. Striding over to a flirty fellow of indeterminate intentions who has your better half cornered with his conversation, throwing your arm possessively around her and exclaiming rather too loudly “She’s MY woman!” isn’t likely to elicit the desired effect. Women do not like to feel that they are “owned” by someone.

Do this and at best, you’re going to get a few steely glances and have to endure a stern lecture once home and out of the way of prying ears and eyes. At worst, your ears will be ringing and your eyes seeing stars as she introduces you to the palm of her right hand with unprecedented and unhesitating force… And that’s just before she walks off, arm in arm with the man whom she was previously uninterested in, with the words “Come on, I’ve had enough of that chauvinist prick.” [Read: 6 ways you can avoid being the overly jealous boyfriend]

#3 Don’t let it affect your relationship. Most of the time in a situation where your girlfriend is being approached, she’ll walk away from it without a memory or thought. In all probability, the situation won’t enter her thoughts again, that is of course, unless you remind her.

Dwell on it for too long and you might suddenly blurt it out in the middle of an argument. If it doesn’t mean anything to her, then it shouldn’t mean anything to you. And if you use it against her several weeks down the line in a fit of petulance, it will look juvenile and unmanly, as it reeks of insecurity. As you may already know, insecurity is not something you want lurking within your relationship. It will probably also make her feel like you are blaming her for that other guy’s actions, and that’s not nice.

#4 Do talk to her about it. Look, if the whole being chatted up thing is happening a little too often and you’re feeling a little marginalized, then get it out in the open. She might not even realize how frequently it’s happening, and she may not know how much it’s affecting you.

The most important thing to remember, however, is that you approach this conversation in a mature and non-confrontational manner. Explain that you’re not extending any blame in her direction, perhaps making the point that she’s perhaps too nice, always seeing the best in others, and maybe not identifying the obviously predatory nature of the men who approach her. Approach the conversation in this way and she should be fine about the whole thing. [Read: You may want to teach her some surefire ways to nicely turn a guy down]

#5 Do employ the services of a third party. Although not the ideal solution in a trusting and stable relationship, if things are a little rocky, and you’re desperate to keep the predators at bay, then employ the services of a friend. Get him to dive in and introduce himself to the conversation, while also casually mentioning that she has a boyfriend.

Wind him up, send him in, and then watch the contest slowly sidle off to look for the next potential victim. You could even, in the right circumstances, send in one of her friends. She can talk about something that no guy would ever be interested in, such as makeup, spa treatments or a friend who happens to be a backstabbing bitch. When the guy catches wind of how there’s no way he can squeeze into a conversation between two girls, he’ll back off on his own. [Read: Sneaky ways you can deal with your girl’s flirty friend]

#6 Do nothing. All in all, the best thing you can do is nothing. Confidence in a man is one of his most attractive points, as far as a woman is concerned. Trust is also something that all relationships need to exercise. If you can just trust her enough to leave her to the conversation at hand, allowing her to enjoy the brief boost to her confidence that most women enjoy when being chatted up, be confident that she’ll return to you without having to force the issue.

When she returns, extend a lightly ironic smile in her direction, put your arm around her with a firm and loving squeeze, and bring her into the conversation at hand, and she’ll remember exactly why she’s with you and not that vacuous simpleton who accosted her at the bar.

[Read: How you can be less insecure of your relationship]

It’s every guy’s fear that some random punk will swoop right in and whisk their girlfriends away. But if you approach the situation calmly and diplomatically, you’ll see that those guys who were so eager to chat up your girl will start dropping like flies.

Despite sending her the smoothest, sweetest line you can come up with, she still hasn’t replied with so much as a “K.” So what gives?

Imagine this scenario: You meet a girl at a bar, you start talking, it’s going well, and you get her number. So the next day you text her, but she simply isn’t responding. What happened? What’s the meaning of this?

Occasionally, the way that a girl behaves in real life can be drastically different from how she behaves through texts. Even if she seems to really like you, like in the above scenario, she might go completely silent via text. This can be incredibly frustrating.

Adding to that frustration is the fact that there could be a number of reasons why she isn’t responding. Some of these reasons may mean that she doesn’t like you, and others may be completely unrelated to how she feels about you. [Read: How to make her want you just by texting her]

Reasons she hasn’t been contacting you

At any rate, it’s helpful to try to figure why she’s being so silent. If you can get to the bottom of it, it may help to alleviate you frustration. So what possible reasons could she have for not replying to you?

#1 Her phone is broken. This is the simplest possible answer. It could really just be that she dropped her phone and she doesn’t have a backup readily available to stick her SIM card in. An easy way to resolve this would be to send her a message on Facebook, or just ask her friends if she’s been receiving your text.

#2 She’s playing hard to get. Sometimes girls will intentionally not respond to you, because they are playing hard to get. In other words, they just don’t want to come across as too easy. They want you to show some effort – they want you to not give up easily. Send her at least one really sweet or clever line each day, and add in a subtle invitation for a future date. This should be effort enough to merit at least a short reply, right? [Read: 15 signs she’s just leading you on]

#3 She likes someone else. Even if you had a great conversation with the girl at the bar, it doesn’t necessarily mean that you are her top choice. If another guy also got her number that night, she may be giving him all of her attention.

In this situation, it may be wise to just wait a few days and see what happens. Maybe the other guy will strike out, and she might text you a lot more. If not, you can simply move one. There are other fish in the sea. [Read: 14 subtle signs she’s not over her ex]

#4 She’s too busy. Sometimes women just have a lot on their plates. Even if they like to go to the bar and flirt, it doesn’t necessarily mean that they are ready to start a new relationship, or that they want to be texting with you regularly.

If you suspect that this is the case, it may be a good idea to just keep looking and not spend too much time waiting on her. [Read: 10 signs you should back off when pursuing a girl]

#5 She may have accidentally deleted your text. Occasionally, technical mix ups like this do happen. If you really think that she likes you, it might be worth it to send her another text, just to make sure that something like this didn’t happen. If she doesn’t respond to two or three texts, try her social media accounts. If there’s still no response, take a hint and accept that she’s not that into you.

#6 She’s extremely shy. If you had a great conversation with the girl at the bar, she may have been a little bit tipsy. Perhaps the alcohol was giving her confidence that she doesn’t normally have. Maybe now that she is sober, she is simply too shy to text you back.

If you suspect that this is what is happening, it is definitely a good idea to be on the very gentle side with your texts. You don’t want to scare her away. Start off with open-ended questions and sweet little greetings. When she warms up to you, she’s bound to send a reply.

#7 She doesn’t actually like you that much. Hopefully it’s not the case, but if she isn’t texting you back after a few days, this could definitely be what is going on. Perhaps she isn’t responding because she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings by saying “I actually don’t like you that much. Thanks though.”

When you’ve given her plenty of instances to reply to you, and she still seems cold, give it a rest and just move on. [Read: 12 telltale signs she’s just not that into you]

#8 She might be insecure about something she didn’t tell you. This is another potential reason why she might not be texting you back. For example, say that you met a great girl and you really hit it off. What she may not have told you is that she has five kids, and she doesn’t think that you will like her because of that.

If you assume that anything like this is happening, it may be best to just give her some encouragement. Compliment her, and tell her that you had a blast when you were talking to each other. This may be enough to get her to let her guard down and open up to you.

#9 She’s actually a lesbian. This is probably a very rare scenario, but who knows, maybe that hot little number that you were talking to at the club was actually a lesbian. Maybe she just liked the attention you were giving her. Or maybe she thought you were just a very butch girl, but then realized otherwise when she wasn’t drunk.

Look back at your conversation. Did she mention anything about her being into girls? Did you catch her checking out girls more than guys? Were your conversations centered around very “typically manly” topics like cars, sports and hot models? If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, you may have just tried to charm your way into a lesbian’s pants! [Read: 6 easy ways to know if she’s a lesbian]

#10 She accidentally gave you the wrong number. This could be another very simple and logical explanation for what is happening. After a few drinks those ones can start to look like sevens. Also, you could have just entered it into your phone wrong. If you still have the number, you may want to go back and double check that you are texting Darcy, and not Darlene, the 86 year old nun from Idaho.

Of course, you could always go online and message her there. But that’s only if she was nice enough to give you her Twitter handle or her Facebook URL.

#11 She forgot. This is another simple, but definitely possible explanation. Sometimes, people simply forget to respond to texts. You may have been waiting for it all day, but she could have been in the middle of a “Sex and the City” marathon with her BFF when you sent her your message.

Give it a little while, see if she responds. If not, send her another text.

[Read: Is she not replying because you said one of the 21 things you should never say to a girl?]

Trying to figure out why a girl isn’t texting you back can be a tricky game to play. On one hand, you want to find out why she isn’t responding. But on the other hand, you don’t want to seem needy and desperate. With these possible reasons in mind, you can then plan your next move. 

Going out for a few drinks with the guys and hoping to meet the girl of your dreams? First, get familiar with the different ladies who will be there.

When it comes to meeting women at a bar, it’s safe to say that you may not always find a wife or girlfriend material. There is always the chance that you might find a rare catch while sitting at the bar, because not all women who hang out at bars are looking to get sloshed.

When men go to a bar, they are typically looking for a good time, to catch a buzz, to let off steam, and maybe find someone to take home for a one night stand. Some men may find someone who’s just their type. Others might find a woman who’s only in there to have a good time. The unlucky ones usually find themselves either completely alone or cleaning up the mess of a girl who’s had one too many tequila shots.

The women you’ll encounter when you go to a bar

As mentioned before, you may meet the girl of your dreams, but first check out this list of the more realistic characters you can expect to find when you go bar hopping:

#1 The alcoholic. This is at the top of the list, because it really goes with the theme appropriately. While not everyone at the bar may be a regular drinker, you can usually spot the rookie from the veteran.

The rookie sips girly drinks, and hours will pass before she asks for a top up. The veteran drinker is usually front and center, taking shots or downing beers like one of the guys. She may be loud and obnoxious, overly flirtatious, and quite often visibly tanked.

#2 The desperado. The Desperado is a frequent fixture at the bar. She may be looking for love or just hungry for attention. Either way, she’s looking for a man, and will desperately pursue this however she sees fit.

While you might consider this an easy pass, these ones can go from one night stand to stalker before you know it. The desperado will go to great lengths to avoid feeling rejected. [Read: 10 types of women you should never, ever date]

#3 The cougar. She’s on the lookout for prey, and her specialty is fresh meat. The cougar isn’t looking for a sugar daddy, she wants a young guy to prove that she’s still “got it.” Either she’s a divorcee, or an independent older lady who wants to call the shots, without the hassle of being tied down.

While some cougars are able to get some guys to settle down, think Demi and Ashton, she is really looking for instant gratification. You can spot her by noticing who she checks out, and if she buys you a drink, you can be sure you’re on her radar. [Read: How much does age really matter in a relationship?]

#4 The sugar baby. The sugar baby is usually a younger woman under 40, who is well dressed, primped, and looking like she walked out of a beauty magazine. She is looking for a rich sugar daddy, and she won’t even look at you twice if you’re under the age of 30.

She’ll watch the men coming in, and business suits and fat wallets are her specialty. Save yourself the rejection with these ones if you don’t drive a luxury car, or own a seriously profitable business. [Read: 11 signs you’re being used for money]

#5 The promiscuous girl. I don’t really need to spell this one out, and while it can sound a lot like the desperado, the promiscuous girl is not usually looking for love. She’s all about lust. She is usually dressed in something way too risqué for the bar scene, and she’ll flash you the sex eyes if she’s interested.

She’s the type to come to your place for a quickie and be gone by sunrise. She won’t leave a note or a phone number. She wants one thing, and if it’s that good, you may have a chance for another encounter, just don’t call it a date! [Read: 25 reasons some women find it so easy to cheat]

#6 The tease. The tease can look like any of the above, but she’s strictly there to have fun, and her idea of fun is playing mind games with men. This woman will enthrall you, lead you to believe you’re getting somewhere, and you’ll fawn over her with attention.

You’ll buy her drinks, appetizers, cigarettes, cab fare, anything she wants, in hopes that you might get the chance to hook up with her, and then… nothing. She disappears, politely says she has to go, the number she gave you is not in service, and the name she gave you isn’t on Facebook. In other words… she played you, and you fell for it.

#7 The bachelorettes. In case men haven’t quite figured it out yet, the loud screaming bunch of sloppy drunks with tiaras and pink ribbons that have taken over the bar are usually a bachelorette party. These women are there to get crazy, drink until they can’t remember the night, and usually display out-of-control boy-crazy behavior. It’s best to leave these women to their own devices, as they probably won’t remember your face tomorrow anyway. [Read: 16 signs of an attention whore]

#8 The singletons. The singletons come in pairs or groups. They are sometimes quietly scoping the room for prospects or they are the wild ones, with guys flocked around them, fighting for their attention. The wild ones are bubbly, and lay the flirtation on thick.

They may be desperados or promiscuous girls, or they may just be looking for a good man in the wrong place. Usually, they are celebrating a break up or looking for a rebound to ease their loneliness. If you choose wisely, you might find a diamond in the rough.

#9 The married woman. The married woman is the one wearing her wedding ring *in some cases*, but is still hoping a guy will check her out or buy her a drink. Then she’ll chalk up her marriage to a lonely, sexless, boring existence, and blame her confession on the alcohol.

Mind you, she didn’t need the drink to dump her sorrows on another man, she was just looking for a shoulder to cry on, and by this I mean [insert something naughtier]. It’s best to leave this woman alone, as she is usually not worth the deception.

#10 The party girl. The party girl can’t be tamed. She’s young, she wants to have fun, and that’s all there is to it. She could care less about the guys at the bar, unless they are contributing to her having a great night out. She’s not necessarily looking for love or sex, as she’s just there to enjoy the party.

#11 The sideliner. The sideliner is kind of like a wallflower. She usually either sits alone, or with her friends who dragged her out to the bar. She may not even like to drink, and she may often be seen sipping the same drink throughout the entire night.

She’s probably the best wife material, if you can get past the fact that her friends are usually dressed more glamorously. Her attire is pretty low key, and her aura may be a bit standoffish.

#12 Some other guy’s girlfriend. Like the married woman, but this one’s harder to spot, as she won’t have a ring. You may buy her drinks, and she may genuinely flirt with you, but at the end, when you work up the courage to ask for her number, she drops the boyfriend bomb on you.

You feel confused and unsure of what to do next, you can’t figure out if you were rejected because she just didn’t like you, or she really did have a boyfriend. Either way it’s a lose-lose.

Pro tip: have realistic expectations

While plenty of men and women have been known to find love at a bar, because people are generally more open and confident after a drink or two, it is still highly likely that you could meet any of the above listed women. As long as you know how to spot them, and you both have realistic expectations, you could end up having a great time that may lead to more in the future.

[Read: 3 moves that will help you stop being afraid of approaching women]

There are many different types of women to be found at a bar, from the rowdy ones to the wallflower-type ones. It’s always good to know these types before risking rejection or going in with an unrealistic idea of who you’ll meet when you go out for drinks.

Want to come across as a real man, but worried that you’re overdoing it? Here’s how to ensure your manliness doesn’t cross the line into aggression.

We guys just can’t win it sometimes, it seems. The press is plastered with articles about how the man of today has to conform to certain metrosexual ideals, a more gentile approach to their interactions with others, and if we don’t conform to these standards, then we are seen as rather archaic and only several steps away from Neanderthals.

And yet, you can be the perfect metrosexual as much as you want, and still win the plaudits of women everywhere, but one thing is for certain – they might let you into their confidence, but they won’t let you into their beds. No matter what version of “man” the press is currently fabricating as some kind of paragon of the gender, women at heart want real men in their lives.

The fine line between being manly and being aggressive

So we’ve established that being a true man is the only way to win yourself into her affections, her heart and, hopefully, her panties. However, there is a very fine line between being a true man – which also involves a certain element of being a gentleman – and being a downright ruffian.

Yes, true men are rather forceful and have a certain strength of conviction and confidence that leaves one in no doubt as to exactly what kind of a male type they are. What they don’t do, though, is ever put the women in a position where they are made to feel weak, threatened or vulnerable. It is essentially the difference between leading someone and pushing them.

The hit list of things real men do

That fine line can be a difficult one to keep on the right side of, so the following hit list of ten tips advising how to be manly, without being too aggressive, should help steer you in the right direction.

#1 Voice. How you use your voice is so important. After pure physical size difference, it’s the main thing that separates men and women in their interactions. Men’s voices are much deeper than women’s, and this is a difference that you need to make the most of.

A slow, deep and rolling speech pattern is just as likely to turn a woman onto you as a squeaky, rapid and hesitant voice is likely to turn her off. However, the caveat here is that a deep masculine voice is not a shouty voice. It should, in fact, be almost quite soft. Bursting her ear drums with a bellow like a town crier really isn’t going to do anything, other than terrify her.

#2 Your gestures. Gesticulation of some degree is fine. In fact it’s an essential part of body language, and failing to utilize it at all can make you look like an automaton. However, getting it right is also quite difficult to do.

Making gestures too often or erratically can make you look feminine and uncontrolled. Motions with the hand should be used rarely, and when they are used, then slowly and carefully is the key. Definitely to be avoided are aggressive gesticulations like shaking your fist, slamming your hand on the table and pointing at the other person – unless you want to end up with a reputation as an aggressor.

#3 Body blocking. Some guys bizarrely seem to think that obstructing a women’s progress with their arm or body or any other appendage is a masculine and attractive thing to do. It isn’t, even if it might have worked for the likes of Cary Grant and Rock Hudson back in the golden age of Hollywood.

If you want to grab a kiss, then wait until the signs are right and the feeling is mutual. Respecting boundaries is a very manly and self-assured thing to do. Not respecting them is, at the very least, aggressive and offensive – at worst, it can be criminal.

#4 Take the lead. A true man always leads the way. He doesn’t dither, hem and haw about what kind of food to eat or what time to meet. He delivers his intentions clearly and with room to change, should there be a necessary reason, but he always leads the way. Leading the way, however, is not the same as telling someone what to do, which seems aggressive and controlling, and should always be avoided. [Read: 12 ways to transform from a nice guy to a real man]

#5 Having an opinion. Extremely desirable in a man, as far as women are concerned. They love a man who knows his own mind and is confident enough to show it – as long as it’s in a considerate and civilized way. Screaming at someone and telling them they’re wrong looks juvenile and insecure, and is more likely to lead her to think of you as a potential serial killer than future husband material.

#6 Eye contact. Again, this is an essential part of coming across in a manly and confident way. Measuredly appropriate eye contact shows confidence, security and an interest in the other person, whereas little to no eye contact looks weak and decidedly unmanly. Staring, however, is the ultimate aggressive no-no and might induce the object of your desires to think of you less like Rudolph Valentino than Hannibal Lecter. [Read: 10 eye contact moves that actually work]

#7 The kiss. One of the most stressful parts of a date, and the one presenting the most potential for a crash and burn scenario, is the greeting or parting kiss. Doing this in a friendly, confident and almost platonic with just a hint of potential for escalation is one of the greatest weapons in the charmer’s armory.

Dithering and poorly executed kisses can be disastrous, but even worse is the looming presence and bear hug that forces the kiss upon its unwilling recipient. This is not the way to win your way into a woman’s heart, and is likely to just give her the creeps. Being sensitive to what she wants and not just what you feel is in order. [Read: 6 giveaway signs she’s ready for you to kiss her]

#8 The lean. Another body language tip, this describes the way you direct your body while conversing with your potential future girlfriend. The weak and unmanly type leans his body anywhere else but in her direction, displaying a patent lack of confidence.

The alpha male, however, leans towards her, showing not only an obvious interest in what she has to say but also, at a subconscious level, an interest that runs a little deeper. What you should never do is loom over her, using your greater physical presence in a way that hints at a potential to harm rather than a potential to charm.

#9 The complaint. If you’re out together somewhere on date, maybe at a restaurant or some other such place, and the service isn’t as it ought to be, then don’t be afraid to complain. Women are attracted to a man who has the strength of character to deal with upsets in a mature and constructive manner. Not dealing with the matter and slyly moaning about it stinks of weakness, whilst screaming and shouting the odds will only serve to embarrass her and make her flee for safety at the first possible opportunity. [Read: 12 ways to avoid a first impression catastrophe]

#10 The competition. If you’re attracted to her, then chances are a lot of other guys will be too. Laughing off some lothario’s approach and putting him firmly in his place with humor and an air of uninjured indifference is far more effective than putting him in the emergency ward. Such a flagrant display of aggression is likely to leave her feeling scared, shocked and vulnerable.

[Read: 20 alpha male characteristics that make you a real alpha]

Don’t be shy about expressing your manliness. It’s what a woman wants. But take advantage of the above tips to ensure that you avoid coming across as a Neanderthal and scaring her off before you can even get her phone number.

You may be surprised to know men can fake their orgasms, with 10 times the difficulty! We’re showing you how to fake a male orgasm and when to do it.

It might sound ridiculous, crazy, even, that a man would ever need to fake an orgasm, but the truth is that it happens more than you think. A 2012 study found that out of 2000 men, a whopping 34% admitted to faking it and in an AskMen.com study, 23% of men will have faked it at some point or another!

Stereotypes suggest it’d be wrong or downright strange, if a man doesn’t climax during sex. So even if a guy had wanted to at some point or another, he might be too shy or too inexperienced to know how to put the faux “O” in “Oscar-worthy performance.”

There are several checkpoints to hit when going for the imitation orgasm, and also key scenarios that are even appropriate for such naughty behavior. Before we get into those, let’s take a look at why in the world a male would want to fake his climax in the first place.

Why he’d even want to

With nerve endings in the male anatomy being out there for the world to see, it’s a wonder men would feel the need to fake at all. So what’s with the male faux O’s? Some men suffer from DE, or “delayed ejaculation,” a condition in which men can’t seem to orgasm through sexual interactions or masturbation. For the rest of them, it turns out men fake it for pretty much the same reasons as females do.

#1 Too tired. Whether it was a long day at work, he’s emotionally exhausted, drunk, or he’s been physically going non-stop all week, sometimes he’s just too damn tired to make it happen. If you want to try to combat this without having to put on a fake-O-show, try having your girlfriend get on top so she can do most of the work, but don’t be surprised if your little man doesn’t want to cooperate. [Read: 20 ways to help maintain an erection]

#2 He doesn’t want to hurt his partner’s feelings. No matter which gender you are, it really sucks when your partner doesn’t finish. Not only did they not experience a pleasurable orgasm, but you’re left wondering what you did wrong. Like women, some men just know it isn’t going to happen but don’t want to crush their partner’s ego. Rather than crush their partner’s sexual ego or hurt their feelings, they resort to the occasional fake.

#3 He’s bored. There’s a well-believed saying that when it comes to men, “even bad sex is good sex,” but this just isn’t the case. If your partner doesn’t seem to be into the sex you’re having, or doesn’t seem to be participating, you may just end up getting bored and losing your gusto to finish. [Read: 9 awkward signs you’re having bad sex]

#4 Already had sex today. If you’ve already had sex once or twice today, odds are it’s going to get harder and harder to reach orgasm. Orgasms typically take longer to get to, once you’ve already had one that day.

[Read: 22 common reasons women fake their orgasm]

How to fake a male orgasm

Now that you know the why of the ordeal, here’s the juicy bit: how to do it. It’s a lot simpler than you think, even as a man!

#1 Wear a condom. If you don’t wear a condom, it’s almost impossible to fake it successfully. After all, women know when they have sperm inside them, because it drips back out. The lack of come coming back out of her is either going to have your girlfriend very freaked out, or very confused. So practice safe sex and use a faux-O-concealing condom.

#2 Know your orgasm. The key to knowing how to fake an orgasm is to know how you orgasm organically. It can be hard to focus on pretty much anything when you’re on the brink of coming, but try to pay attention next time!

Do you make noise? Thrust a little? Stiffen up? Close your eyes? It’s extremely likely that your partner knows your O-face, so try your best to replicate your real orgasm experience. Doggy-style will be your best friend when faking an O, this way your girl won’t be able to judge your performance too harshly!

#3 Don’t put on a show. When women fake an orgasm they usually tend to put on a heck of a show in the process. Screaming and over-exaggerated writhing and clenching are all part of the performance. Men get so excited by the commotion, some will never know his girl’s orgasm was a phony.

Don’t do this. Try not to make your “orgasm” an act that’s screen worthy, just make it believable. Your girl will notice, and she’ll definitely call you out on it.

#4 Dispose of the evidence. It’s imperative that you dispose of the evidence within a minute of the act being over. Once you’re finished up, quickly slip off the condom into a napkin or toilet paper and toss that sucker right into the garbage, before your girlfriend gets a chance to see the evidence. If your girl insists you come in for a cuddle afterwards, tell her you just want to get cleaned up first, and then you’re all hers.

#5 Never try with oral. This really goes without saying, but you should never, ever, ever try to pass one off on your girlfriend while she has you in her mouth. There are too many obvious, tell-tale signs of a male orgasm: ball and penis contractions, softening of the penis, sperm… While women may be able to pass off a writhing fake O during oral, for men this is one big no-no.

[Read: 8 tips and tricks to give her oral like a pro]

Just like the female orgasm, always remember to use a phoney climax only in case of emergencies, and never fool your partner into thinking they’re pleasuring you when they’re not. Your lover can’t get better, if they don’t know they’re doing something wrong. In all other faux-O situations, good luck!

Just because he’s your friend, doesn’t make him immune to temptation. We’ll help you tell if he has made your woman the object of his desires.

There’s not a man on God’s green earth that would complain about having an attractive girlfriend hanging off his arm, but there are certain drawbacks also. Firstly, and as much as some may try to deny it, you tend to be very aware of her looks, more than might otherwise be the case, and consequently, you end up having to put in a bit more time and effort to keep her happy.

Also, and more worryingly, is the unwanted male attention she’ll attract – unwanted from your perspective at least! It’s inevitable that a good looking woman will attract looks from men and women everywhere she goes, if not a little light flirting. But what if the person with your significant other in their sights is actually one of your friends?

Friends forever?

Bros before hoes? Let’s face it, they may have been your best of friends for decades, but throw a gorgeous figure and killer looks into the equation, and even men’s most essential functions fail to act properly – never mind anything as complex as ethics and decency. The big brain loses out nearly every time when little brain has someone fixed in its sights.

Is your friend into your girlfriend?

Obviously, they’re not going to start coming on to her when you’re around or start talking about her inappropriately in your presence, so how can you tell if they are indeed enamored of your other half or just being nice for your sake. Well, fear no more gentlemen: the following list tells all.

#1 I can feel your presence. Is your friend one of those who you have that kind of healthy relationship with, where you might not see them for six months at a time, and yet you can seamlessly pick up from where you left off? Then they meet your girlfriend and all of a sudden are ringing you every other day, inviting themselves round to your place or on already planned nights out? Does he always ask if you’re going out on your own or whether there will be anyone else there?

These are all surefire indications that he has the scent of your woman in his nostrils, and is relentlessly pursuing her. He may not have admitted it to himself at this stage, but he will, and it will lead to trouble. Try not to encourage his behavior, and keep him to a routine that he was previously comfortable with – no matter how close you are.

#2 It’s no joke. Your friend’s one of the lads and like a bit of a laugh, but he holds onto his laughter like a cheating husband holds on to his nether regions. He’s kind of cool and collected and exposes his humor through little more than the odd sardonic smile.

Then he meets your girlfriend, and starts belly laughing over every silly and inconsequential thing she comes out with for no apparent reason. No, he hasn’t suddenly turned into the moron he is acting like. He has actually and very suddenly become infatuated with your girlfriend. In a desperate attempt to show her how nice he is, how approachable and friendly he is, he has thrown his cool scruples to the wind. Best keep your eye on him.

#3 Whose side? You go out for a drink or meal or something similar, and whether orchestrated that way or not, your girlfriend and friend bump into each other, and the chat starts flowing. Do you find that your friend is starting to be all obsequious with her, hanging on her every word?

And more importantly, do you notice that he starts agreeing with everything she says, and yet disagreeing with you. If he is so swift to take the side of someone he barely knows against someone who could have been a friend for years, then you can bet your bottom dollar that his little brain is firmly in control! [Read: 20 signs of attraction when he talks to your girl]

#4 Smooth operator. Your friend is a real masculine type. He dresses pretty for every occasion in casual gear or day wear. In fact, his idea of formal dress consists of black sports shoes, instead of white and a t-shirt without a logo on it!

So, when he suddenly turns up unannounced, looking like he’s auditioning for the part of James Bond, then something is definitely amiss. Is it that he’s had something of an epiphany, a moment of self-realization? Nope. He’s after your girl. Simple.

#5 Ditch the itch. Your friend is a happily attached man. He’s one of those that you always have to drag away from his other half and seems content to spend the rest of his life in her company and no one else’s. Then one day he meets your girlfriend, and the next time he sees you tells you he’s single.

He’s split up from the woman of his dreams, and furthermore, can’t seem to provide even a half decent answer as to why. No doubt about it. He’s fallen for your girl, and he’s made himself available for any future moves to be made on her.

#6 The gentle touch. This man, the one who is famous for his burp and fart jokes and is more likely to turn his back on a girl than turn on the charm, suddenly turns into Mr. Sensitive. You and your friends watch in shock and horror, as he turns himself into a smooth-talking Lothario. Definitely one to keep an eye on! [Read: 18 body language signs that mean he’s too into your girl]

#7 The sweet smell of success. The man who never splashes out on anything more than a bargain store can of standard deodorant suddenly starts turning up wearing the latest scents from Gaultier and Paul Smith, every time your girlfriend is in the picture. Another obvious sign of a developing crush.

#8 The worm that turned. The staunchest ally you’ve ever had, your friend suddenly turns on you whenever in your girl’s presence, having sly digs at you and trying to put you down. He has gone feral, I’m afraid, and, in his need to show her that he’s the alpha male in this pack, nothing will stand in his way.

#9 You’ve got mail. In the most surreptitious of manners, he somehow manages to get her contact details, maybe under the guise of planning a surprise birthday party or something similar, but then starts bombarding her with all kinds of silly messages at all times of day and night. If your girl sheepishly approaches you with such news, then that is definitely one crush that needs to be nipped in the bud.

#10 It’s a gift. Not everyone has the subtlety to make moves on a girl the way that some of the previous points require, and your friend may be oblivious to how obvious his attempts to woo your girl actually are. So, if he starts turning up with bigger bouquets and more expensive boxes of chocolate for her than you, then it may be time to have words!

[Read: 6 tips for getting a guy to back off from your girl]

If you want to get dumped, then act like a chump. Otherwise, use the insights above to keep your friends’ crushes firmly under control!

Worried that your bank balance can’t stretch to the cost of a romantic proposal? Think again! Here are some romantic yet affordable ways to propose!

If you’re lucky enough to possess a bank balance with more zeros in it than there are politicians in a brothel, then you probably don’t need much advice on how to create the perfect proposal scenario.

However, for those of us mere mortals who are limited to more modest means, jetting off to the Bahamas on a last minute whim, and having the engagement ring presented by a well-known celebrity at a private beach, whilst accompanied by the string section of the London Philharmonic Orchestra is probably a somewhat unlikely proposition. Never fear though, fellow suppliants, help is on hand to provide the perfect scenario for the proposer on a shoestring. [Read: 20 reasons to get married and live happily ever after]

Money isn’t everything. You can propose with modest means!

If you’d like to treat your significant other to the proposal experience of a lifetime, don’t think that you’re out of the running, just because you’re relying on your penny jar to pay for it. Some of the best proposal ideas are cheap, almost to the point of being free.

They say that it’s the thought that counts when we buy someone a gift rather than its value, and the same is true for a proposal. All you have to do is appropriately match any one of the proposal ideas in the following list to the person you wish to marry, to make the moment one that she will remember for the rest of her life.

#1 Pack your hamper. Few things are as romantic as a picnic, if organized properly beforehand, and that goes for a number of different scenarios including a proposal of marriage. Do it stylishly though, with glasses, sparkling wine and a number of light but sexy foods, all packed in advance and of course, the whole point of the situation, the ring.

You could just propose over the course of the picnic in a normal fashion, and if the setting is one of great beauty you might feel that you needn’t worry about being too elaborate. However, what could be more romantic than hiding the ring at the bottom of a champagne glass ready for her to find at the correct juncture, or within some other part of the proceedings. Either way you’re onto a winner, and it won’t cost the earth. [Read: 20 unconventional date ideas to take her on before proposing]

#2 Sports stadium. Do you and your partner have a favorite sport team that you regularly visit together? If so, then why not take advantage of the community spirit that they usually profess to maintain and ask them to spell out your proposal on the score board at half time? It won’t cost a penny and will make your proposal the center of everyone’s attention.

A couple of warnings though: only execute this move if you both support the team in question, otherwise it looks a bit cheesy and selfish, and be very sure that she will accept the proposal, because no-one looks a bigger fool than he who gets turned down on the big screen in front of thousands of people.

#3 Home cooking. You could propose over dinner in a fancy restaurant, but that costs a pretty penny, so why not do it at home instead? Get your friends involved and create a beautiful, romantic environment with candles and all the trimmings, and have them wait on you both hand and foot. They could even bring out the ring on a satin cushion whilst harmonizing a romantic tune to create a beautiful effect that a fancy restaurant just couldn’t vie with.

#4 Back to the beginning. Try taking her to the place you first met and proposing to her there. This won’t cost a penny, presuming that you didn’t meet on holiday somewhere exotic, and will show her how thoughtful and attentive you are. Make it come full circle by transforming her from girlfriend to fiancée on the very same spot where you transformed yourself from friends to lovers. [Read: The couple’s guide to a romantic road trip]

#5 On the tube. No, not the London Underground – YouTube. Make her a beautiful video creating a collage of scenes, all leading up to the vital question and post it on YouTube. Then, send her the link telling her you’ve found some really cute footage of a cat playing the piano or some such, and then let the story unfold. Priceless, romantic and it doesn’t cost a bean.

#6 It’s all so trivial. Get her round to yours for a romantic evening in with a bottle of wine, some soft music and your favorite trivia board game. The only difference this time is that you’re going to plant a card in one of the question card decks bearing the legend “Will you marry me?” She’s bound to say yes to such a romantic proposal whilst your wallet stays firmly intact.

#7 It is written. This method takes a certain amount of preparation and good luck, but try writing the vital question in the snow or sand, depending on where you are, and then taking her for an unsuspecting stroll right past it at a later point.

The beauty of this method is not only the fact that it is entirely free to execute, but that it can be as vast or as small in scale as you deem fit. If you get friends to help you could have the letters 10ft wide or more – only your imagination restricts just how epic this proposal scenario can be.

#8 Chinese banquet. Of course, any restaurant proposal is nice but, to give it a unique twist, make a couple of fortune cookies in advance, one with the “Will you marry me?” message within it. You can even get the staff in on the act, and have one of the waiters bring the cookies to the table at a pre-arranged point during the evening.

#9 A magic memory. A lot of preparation needed for this one, but pull some simple magic trick instructions off the internet with which to bedazzle her and spend the next few weeks practicing in secret. At a point when you have developed the skills necessary to put on a performance, produce a card from the pack as part of the trick with the proposal message written upon it. The details are up to you, but the only thing this method should cost you is time.

#10 Stars. A personal favorite of mine is this method, but it does cost a few pennies for the small outlay needed to buy some glow-in-the-dark stars. You can buy these from craft shops or on the internet. Just wait until she has gone out somewhere, fabricate a reason, if necessary, and then spell out the proposal with the stars in a message on the bedroom ceiling.

If you do this well, the first time she’ll notice them is when you turn off the lights to go to sleep and the message suddenly emblazons itself upon the darkened room. A beautiful moment that barely breaks open the piggy bank.

[Read: Unique and romantic proposal ideas to try]

So guys, don’t hesitate for a moment to pop the vital question. With any one of these proposal ideas at your disposal, even the most impoverished of us are able to make the moment one to remember.

Of all the dating dilemmas, this one is a difficult thing to handle. So do you like a friend’s girlfriend or does she like you? What’s next? Find out.

You have a friend.

And one fine day, he meets the girl of his dreams and falls in love.

A few weeks later, he introduces you to her. You’re happy for him.

But you’re totally falling in love with his girlfriend.

Ever been there?

Almost all guys have.

On one hand, you’re happy for your friend. He did find a great catch.

But on the other hand, you’re jealous.

His girlfriend is the sexiest thing you’ve ever seen and you can’t stop fantasizing about her, or wishing she could be with you instead of your friend.

Do you like a friend’s girlfriend?

When you’re a guy, it’s easy to instantly get attracted to a girl you meet, even if she’s your friend’s girlfriend.

While girls take a while to build the whole bonding thing, guys just don’t care. You like a girl, and you want her.

But when you like a friend’s new girlfriend or even an old one, you’re definitely on unstable ground. So what do you do when you find yourself in a dilemma like this.

There are just two things you can do. Steal the girl. Or admire her from afar and eventually forget about her. [Read: The best way to attract a girl with a boyfriend]

How well do you know your friend?

Firstly, most people are going to tell you to drop the thought. But every circumstance is different. And at times, you dating your friend’s girlfriend may end up turning out to be the best thing for everyone involved. But that’s not always the case.

Here’s the easy way to figure it out by yourself.

For starters, how well do you know this friend, is he a real good buddy or someone you just know in passing? If he’s a very good friend, stop right there. You don’t steal a girl from a best buddy, however bad things get. In a worst case scenario, you date a friend’s girlfriend only months after they’ve broken up. But that doesn’t always end well either.

But if you don’t know this guy very well or he’s not a great friend, then you could still give this a thought.

Can you fancy her and yet find someone else?

She may be hot, and all you probably want to do is hold her hands or take a sneak peek at her cleavage. You may think it is true love, but it’s almost always an infatuation. You can always move on if you choose to, remember that. [Read: Sneaky ways to stare at a girl’s cleavage]

Try to date one of her friends or someone else you find attractive. It’s easier, safer and won’t shatter any hearts. [Read: Stages of love for men]

Is she happy with your friend?

You may secretly think your friend is a loser and the luckiest son of a gun for getting a girl who’s so good in every way. And you may also think she’s unhappy in the relationship.

But is she really unhappy in the relationship? Did she tell you that herself? If she did, she probably likes you too. Why the heck would a girl tell her boyfriend’s friend that she’s unhappy for any other reason? In such cases, you may feel like the knight in shining armor who’s doing your friend’s girlfriend a favor by rescuing the damsel in distress from a bad relationship. But you’re really not.

You’re only creating more confusions and complications by flirting with her and leading her on. And don’t forget this, you’re digging your own grave by warming up to a good friend’s girlfriend.

Are you having a great time with her?

Is your friend’s girlfriend spending a lot of time with you, or going out of her way to talk to you? Do both of you have wonderful conversations laced with romance and seduction now and then? It may all feel really happy and sappy, but you have to remember that both of you are intentionally walking into something that could only create more problems. Do you really have to sweet talk her and try to make her feel like you’re a better guy? Are you really being a good friend here?

Does she like you too?

Most guys get confused here. Just because she speaks nicely and touches you while talking or complimenting you doesn’t mean she likes you too. She may just be trying to get friendly. Unless she tells you she likes you or tries to kiss you or hold your hand when it’s just the both of you, don’t let your thoughts wander into a complicated romance. Be sure of her feelings before you fall for her. [Read: Dealing with a complicated relationship]

The code of friends

If you try to steal a girlfriend behind your friend’s back, you’re breaking the bro code. Friends don’t date a friend’s girlfriend. You may be shunned by all your other friends for complicating things. Are you ready to give up all your friends for a girl who isn’t yours in the first place?

Can you forget her?

Sometimes, you may be faced with a life changing circumstance. You may know deep inside that your friend’s girlfriend is the one you want. And she may like you a lot too.

Can you live with yourself for not going out with her? You may end up hating your friend anyways for dating the girl you secretly like and your friendship may start falling apart in a few months.

Forget her if your friend matters to you

Younger people have a huge misconception about friendship. They think friendships are made for life. And it’s almost always false. You’ll only learn this later when you don’t have time for old friends anymore. Friends come and go all the time. A few friends may stay in your life forever, but most friends end up becoming once-a-month drinking buddies or once-in-six-months reunion party friends.

If your friend matters to you, harden your heart and forget about his girlfriend. If you couldn’t care less about losing your friend, and all that matters is his girlfriend, throw your friend in the dirt and date the girl!

How to date a friend’s girlfriend

Once you’re certain that you don’t care about your friend, and want his girlfriend more than anything else, start making your move if you know she likes you too. Preferably, try to steal a friend’s girlfriend only if he’s not a good friend and if he isn’t treating her the way a girlfriend should be treated. [Read: How to make a girl like you without asking her out]

But while you’re wooing her and impressing her, occasionally tell your other friends about how badly your friend is treating his girlfriend and how she constantly calls you while crying over the phone and talks about how she’s unhappy with her boyfriend (as long as it’s close to the truth). By letting all your friends knows the real truth, you can actually end up looking like the savior and a hero in due course.

Don’t propose to her when she’s still in the relationship. If she likes you too, get her to break up with your friend first. And once you’re past that, invite her along the next time you meet your other friends. Let your friends believe that you’re just trying to make her feel better after a bad breakup with your friend who’s been a really bad boyfriend.

The bitchy complication

You may genuinely like your friend’s girlfriend. But you can’t jump into any conclusion about her feelings unless you hear it from her. Does she really like you? Don’t be too confident about that thought until she breaks up with her boyfriend.

A few girls just like the attention. She may be dating your friend, but after noticing that you’ve been drooling over her for a while, she may try to mess with your feelings just to get your attention. Wouldn’t you like it if your girlfriend’s best friend has a crush on you? It’s the same thing. Always wait for her to end the relationship. At least then you’ll know she seriously does like you. [Read: Why are women fickle in love?]

What should you do?

The last word, if you like your friend’s girlfriend enough to lose a friend, go full speed ahead. But never ask her out until you’re sure she likes you.

If you value your friend more than a fickle girl who can’t make up her mind on who she likes, then steel your heart and avoid her.

[Read: Is the girl you like using you?]

Do you like a friend’s girlfriend? Of course you do. But now that you know the odds and the ways, do something about it. But always remember to think with a clear head. And never jump to conclusions.